View Full Version : Approaching girls in class or at university
WolfyStyles
07-16-2009, 05:18 AM
I having problems with the approach for a girl in my class or walking down the halls in a university.
I tried the opinion opener with a girl and class and she just freaked out. I also tried an opinion opener with a girl in the hall and the few have said I dont like giving advice.
Czech
07-16-2009, 07:36 PM
Don't try opinion openers. Just use a friendly, "Hey, how's it going?" or "Haven't seen you before. You're not sneaking into the lecture for the day, are you?"
If the girl is in your class, even asking about homework is an opener. Remember, it's day game. Take it SLOW. As long as you have good body language and a nice smile, most university students will respond well. It's not high school. :P
CaliDuckMike
07-25-2009, 10:43 PM
Don't try opinion openers. Just use a friendly, "Hey, how's it going?" or "Haven't seen you before. You're not sneaking into the lecture for the day, are you?"
If the girl is in your class, even asking about homework is an opener. Remember, it's day game. Take it SLOW. As long as you have good body language and a nice smile, most university students will respond well. It's not high school. :P
But don't you want to avoid giving IOIs before they do? That's always confused me about some day game openers I've heard/read
luminova
07-26-2009, 01:06 AM
some day game openers seem to have a different IOI/IOD structure to them. they follow different rules than night game. don't know what those rules are yet :rolleyes: but some day game openers will begin with an IOI, especially direct day game openers (don't even get me started on how those work, i have no clue!).
ThePlayBook
07-27-2009, 08:39 AM
Look first at where your at. In a classroom or in some other similar environment. Whats the attitude in a classroom? Typically disciplined and orientated unlike that of a bar or club. So be natural in that area, don't be acting foreign or creepy.
Ive always used homework or something of that nature to open up. Pay attention to what food or drink they have as well. People would bring in all kinds of crazy shit to class so openers were typically available. Check for some driving points
::seeing a girl with a pack of gum
Me: Hey can I snag a piece ? (NEVER been turned down asking this)
Her: sure, ok, etc.
Me: Starting to chew gum, WOAH I can tell this gum has been sitting in your purse for a while.
Her: WHAT, Its a new pack?
Me:Tastes funny, like something in your purse mended with the flavor(etc.)
Her: ::laughing, usually confused:: IDK what it could be.
...usually about this time im hoping I pickup on something else to change the subject to then induce some DHV's. Judging also that all girls will answer differently.
Learned that ^^^ from a real experience. I use to scrounge gum all the time from people, one time I got a piece right out of a pack from this girl, and it tasted rank from the stuff in her purse pounding on it. I almost gagged trying to chew it.
Then the next time you can sit by the same girl in class then offer her a piece of gum if you have any..to repay for the piece you got from her and to re-open on her. Simple stuff like this to barge in your ways.
Kelevra
07-28-2009, 11:15 PM
I ask people what they got on tests a lot.
Then you can BS about how the test was, what both your sticking points were, and then offer to begin a study group. I invite guys and girls so i dont look creepy and because... i actually benefit from study groups. You can all meet up at a coffe shop or book store if not at someones house.
Then just shoot the shit before/after the study and run game. Study groups is an awesome way to meet people. I always find an excuse to play the cube with my target. (while learning i did it to everyone)
Czech
07-29-2009, 06:56 PM
But don't you want to avoid giving IOIs before they do? That's always confused me about some day game openers I've heard/read
You can give immediate IOIs in day game, because girls are not expecting it and are caught off-guard, unlike at a night club.
A very effective day game opener is approaching a girl and saying something to the degree of, "Excuse me, but I thought I'd kick myself if I didn't stop you and tell you how beautiful I think you are." Now that you have her stopped, you can make small talk and hopefully N-close.
When approaching a set, approach an obstacle and use something like, "Hey! I *had* to come over here and tell you how cute I think your friend is."
noSqueeze
07-31-2009, 03:48 AM
Honestly, I spent last semester working more on game in class as much as studying. I sat on the table in the front row and talked to the whole class about whatever the fuck I wanted for my own amusement, in all my classes. The end result was a whole lot of massages, cuddling, free lunches and an HB10. Just have fun and let other people have fun around you. The first day socializing is key, because everyone's so fucking shy. Just sit up and ask what the hell is wrong with everyone.
AFC Ajax
07-31-2009, 05:23 PM
Yeah, I like the all purpose direct opener: you guys look cute, whatsup?
Its less shocking in those kind of situations than saying they look gorgeous/stunning etc.
WolfyStyles
08-04-2009, 11:00 AM
Honestly, I spent last semester working more on game in class as much as studying. I sat on the table in the front row and talked to the whole class about whatever the fuck I wanted for my own amusement, in all my classes. The end result was a whole lot of massages, cuddling, free lunches and an HB10. Just have fun and let other people have fun around you. The first day socializing is key, because everyone's so fucking shy. Just sit up and ask what the hell is wrong with everyone.
so bascially just stand up and go jeez why is everyone so damn quiet?
ThePlayBook
08-04-2009, 11:06 AM
Its basically a no holds barred, except no low blows so to speak. You can run anything you want any way, but just keep in mind not to pull any big AFC moves.
If they made it any easier...........:cool:
Kelevra
08-04-2009, 11:39 AM
I think im gonna bring in doughnuts on the first day. Maybe bring them every monday or once a week or something. Iv been watching a lot of Dexter on showtime.
I figure it will be a decent conversation starter, i can deny any HB's if i feel like it, and i can start conversations about Dexter.
I can make it fun and act like im just a sociopath taking notes from Dexter.
Dynasty
08-04-2009, 06:47 PM
yeah i know how that feels. in high school, i tried to talk to girls but there just wasnt any time! and i knew i would always break the 3 second and 3 minute rule. it was tough for me to actually approch her. try to hang out with her outside of class of maybe around campus.
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