Can't get her out of my head

[Sawyer]

Quite some time ago, before i was introduced to the PUA community, there was a girl who i fell head over heels for, kept on daydreaming about her and all other cliches imaginable. downside is; at the exact time i worked up the courage to do anything about this, she went and got herself a bf :mad:

I'm trying to forget about her, but recently my mind keeps on wandering back to her. does anyone have any advice to help me forget about her once and for all? I have tried avoiding her, gaming others and still she keeps randomly popping up! it's beginning to annoy me and ruin my inner game. any help please?

[Kind]

You can't forget her then talk to her and the bf go out have fun. What I have found is that once the cost of being her friend out weight's your friendship as it is doing now. You will leave all on your own. No shame and it's not messing up your inner game the emotions are. Bring them back to center. Emotions are HIGHLY resistant to LOGIC so let your self feel in control again remember what is like before her remember the good and what you have learned good in this life and this current state will simply fade back to where you were before her. If you wish you can always put yourself into a future state where you are happy and have all that you need.

[Fishy]

I know it can be hard man, I hope this helps!

When you think about her, start thinking about something else. If it doesn't work, do something to occupy your mind.

Delete her on msn (you don't need to block her, but it's optional). Just seeing her nickname pop up will make you think about her. When she says anythin to you don't respond and close the screen asap. When you meet her and she asks why you aren't responding (or why you aren't online anymore), say that you're very busy, don't use msn anymore, you are always in offline mode, ...

When you do see her, ignore her. You could say hi, but don't say any more. If she stars talking to you, be polite, but find an excuse to go away. If you're in a group, don't talk to her, don't even look at her (makes you think about her), uless she starts a conversation. Talks to other people instead. If possible, find an excuse and leave.
Again, if she aks why you guys aren't talking anymore, say you're busy.

If you feel like you're over her, you could start hanging out again, but it's a dangerous move, chances are you'll get one-itis again. If she breaks up with her bf, decide if you want to put effort in it, cause odds are you'll fall in love again.

[Trigov]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oCrdcwr-X50
it's remind me this video

[Kepz]

In the game (the book) they say Sleep with 10 different kind of women and then think back at the girl and see if you still can't get her out of your head.

[lovelorn85]

rather than resist it,embrace it..what you resist persists..you dont have to feel ashamed for what you feel for as a man..ur mind is wandering because of could haves and what nots,you didnt take any action..an action oriented AFC beats a keyboard jockey PUA anytime..

there was this girl i had like a HUGE crush on(shes actually a tv star in my country),whom i know thru my social circle..she had a bf for like three years,and i was sulking abt the could haves and what nots too..until i said,
you know what,f**k it..

im going to keep all the stuff i learnt (attraction,escalation,dominance,etc,etc) in mind but im also going to embrace my WANT of her fully,instead of being ashamed by it..

i gamed her full on sexual from the headstart(i guess some would call it direct game) and pictured myself as the Hulk smashing through resistance and there is no way she isnt going to give in..

within like 3 weeks,i built so much sexual tension that she actually JUMPED me while we were in a cab together and we went mad physical in there;)-with her boyfren's ring with his initials on her finger mind you:D

of course this isnt a happily ever after story,as due to my incomplete knowledge of game,i didnt know how to handle things when she started giving massive resistance,shit tests,etc in the following weeks..

so i froze her out til i can settle my incomplete knowledge via a bootcamp and 1 on 1 with matador(still wiating for the sales people:p )

take action my man..you will feel a HELL LOT better..fail,doesnt matter,do the most afc shit possible doesnt matter,but at the very least try..

[Sawyer]

Nicely done Lovelorn :D

Thanks for all the advice guys, it's all very good and has helped me out a lot!

[The~Wolf]

Dude. I was in a similar situation about 2 years ago. It was a great situation and I didn't pull the trigger. I could not get her out of mind for months, I was obsessing over my failure to close. This was my one-itis. I eventually went out to talk to other chicks and basically I just have kind of let the time go by and everyday, things got better. Time heals. Sorry I don't have better advice for you man. I still get physically sick when I think about my previous situation 2 years later. If I had the opportunity I would just act on whatever I was feeling and go talk to her. Maybe give it a shot? Good luck man.

~Wild Thing

[JonTurbo]

alright heres my .02

first thing that helps is going out and excercising. I take my anger out by working out. if she sees you again you will be in great shape, she'll be shocked on how good you look physically.

second- go out more and practice on the field.
this wil lead you to meeting more women and if she sees that you have women in your life she will jealous (jealousy plotline and preselection)
her attraction for you will skyrocket.

these are the 2 main things you should be doing.
till this day I still think about the girl that I got the farthest with. but ive met so many women that have better qualities then her that I dont even want her back. but I have a feeling shes trying to get me back cause im on fire.... lol

apply these two key ingrediants to your life and it should help you forget about her slowly.