Evaluate my push/pull

[TheBoss]

Scenario: direct day approach at grocery store - number close

We text back and forth for awhile and talk on the phone a few times

She asks me to hang out - we go shopping and have dinner - here g/f is there - I'm hung over and not very talkative though. Wish I had try to build more rapport. She offers to drive me to my car and I accept. We kiss at the end of the night. As I leave, she asks me for another kiss.

We text back and forth a few times. Sometimes she doesn't respond. It usually takes her a while, some times days to respond. She responds to a text I sent a few days go.

Text
Me: How is my adorable little brat?
HB: Great, how are you?
Me:My asrologist says that sagis aren't a good match for cancers. Friends?
HB: Ok ?!?!?
HB: Friends.
Me. Just kidding. I made that up. Oh my god, the funniest thing happened the other day. Call me when you get sec.

... phone rings
Phone
Me: Hello, fluff
Me: Funny story
Her: Laughs
Me: fluff, tenative day 3 plans for early next week

How could I have improved this? Seemed to work, but she is a little flaky and non-responsive. I'm trying to spike more attraction.

Anyway, I don't feel confident she will come through on the day 3. We'll see. Typical busy hot babe, with lots of options. Trying to be the shiny object with out being to obvious.

Any thoughts?

[smoothlatinkid]

Don't make tentative plans. Your time is valuable. Get her to commit or invite someone else.

[TheBoss]

Don't make tentative plans. Your time is valuable. Get her to commit or invite someone else.

Good point. I realized this after, but she didn't bite when I said what are you doing early next week and I waffled.

Should have been more specific.

[ware_ru]

Just kidding. I made that up.

Don't do that. In text or in conversation. That is just weak.

Also, credit one of the pickup101 guys, use smiley faces in text messaging. It helps a lot. the pickup101 blog has a great guide on text messages

[TheBoss]

Don't do that. In text or in conversation. That is just weak.

Also, credit one of the pickup101 guys, use smiley faces in text messaging. It helps a lot. the pickup101 blog has a great guide on text messages

Agreed, but she thought I was serious. I had to let her know I wasn't.

Should have said something like, "I can't believe you fell for that!"

[Nitro]

I think your push/pull is uncalibrated.

Text
Me: (How is my adorable little brat?)push
HB: Great, how are you?
Me:(My asrologist says that sagis aren't a good match for cancers)push. (Friends?)push
HB: Ok ?!?!?
HB: Friends.
Me. (Just kidding)this is not a pull, it's an excuse . I made that up. Oh my god, the funniest thing happened the other day. Call me when you get sec.

Here how I would do it.


Me: How is my adorable little brat? :)
HB: Great, how are you?
Me:My asrologist says that sagis aren't a good match for cancers. Gee look at you you're already in love with me.
HB: Ok ?!?!?
HB: Friends.
Me. Just kidding. I made that up you and you believed me :) , I like how you're inocent and pure. Oh my god, you should run away from me I'm toxic for you.


Nitro