How 2 look like the ONE

[Extremer]

"Understanding comes from within"

So in order 2 understand what im saying ull have 2 do couple of things 4 me: let us assume that u (the reader) are male. Then picture in ur mind please (no need 2 close ur eyes just think of her) the women of ur dreams. Im pretty sure she is lovely! imagine every single detail about her. Imagine how soft her skin is, how beautiful are lines of her body... think of that beautiful face now (btw 4 the sake of the experiment dnt think of ur gfs think of ur dream girl). Now focus on her hair - what color is it? - and i almost forgot - her eyes: what color are they? Well i dnt know u or ur girl type but im pretty sure (i can be wrong though) u thought of beautiful blonde with light green/blue eyes. Last thing - what is she wearing? Personally I thought of blondy with beautiful blue eyes and she were in white. Urs is probably wearing some really bright color very possibly white too. And she definitely is wearing a dress - no doubt about that.
So why am i telling u all this? Simple, just think of womans perspective and i hope women on the forum will support me on this one: Do u wanna be the dream guy for that girl of urs? Well if u do consider this: before she knows u she has this imaginary Mr Right in her head. What do u think she pictures him wearing? do u think she will imagine him in dark black color? maybe dark blue? OR she thinks of him in white too - he is her prince charming for christ sake! Think of that for a moment. Now do u think she pictures him smiling or crying? Do u think her dream guy looks tough? OR maybe he is smiling the way prince/Mr Right/ The ONE should! Now get this does he have any jewelery? Guess what - yes he does:) - but not too much couple of rings here and there, maybe one bracelet, maybe one tiny necklace but thats it dont overdo it.
Now I had this idea come 2 me yesterday and i decided 2 field test it: I wore really light almost white but with a slight pink tone shirt, i wore my jewelery, i put the biggest possible smile and i went day gaming. My results? Sets were opening no actually let me rephrase that they were as happy 2 open them as only kids would be happy 2 see Santa - no kidding. I would try 2 leave they would drag me back in, i tried 2 talk 2 one set and another one came and started answering my opener (it was: what is the best place 2 go to? ~~~ Well get this: me and my buddies are going on eurotrip and we decide 2 go 2 5 countries: Italy, Spain, London, Paris but we have no idea about the fifth one?) btw there were no middling interest - they were interested in me before i even approached u know im asking what is the best place 2 go 2? and before i finish my sentence the hottest girl in the group is like GERMANY! TURKEY! and im like: ok that was quick and another girl is striving 2 tell me her opinion - the day was magic!:) btw i had this beggar kid approach me and i gave him 5 pounds or sth and he couldnt believe his luck but girls around noticed that - and although i do that all the time - i could see their faces change (in a good way) - its not really about the amount of money that u give it is that u give at least something matters: use that 2 ur benefit;). And the mistake u may do: dnt smile on ur way in - SMILE ALL THE TIME! smile when u neg, when u dhv, when u open when u eject - ur the happiest dude in the world, enjoying the moment and whole life! dnt worry about looking rapport seeking - u will eliminate this threat by disqualifying urself and negs.
Now dress up so ur dream girl recognizes u, put a smile on and... smile one more time!:D

2 ur success
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[ALN STRIECx]

I see what you have just done.
You have taken the mainstream stereotype of prince charming that is engrained into most girls sub-conscious since they were little girls. Ladies you can thank Disney, TV, movies, your mother and sister's conditioning (positive or negative), and your lifelong peers which also assisted in imposing that conditioning to you, mostly innocently.
Sadly this conditioning is also imposed to us guys since we all were conditioned to believe that the perfect woman is the princess or elite type we have seen in movies, tv's etc.

But The most important thing to learn here is that You create your reality. There is no need to act like this guy , this guy is just acting naturally he is the prince charming type. Some of us are the badass type. Some the artist type, some the pimp daddy type, some the intellectual type. Of course we all have a different personality configuration of these attributes due to conditioning, beliefs, genetics, etc.

We may want a certain type but if we only want all we will receive is more wanting. If we become and not seek reactions but become our true selves and live the moment things will occur naturally.

When we succeed is because we are successful not because we follow someones guidelines to success.

Just be aware of what you trully are and want, if you are not true your subconscious will sabotage you. That is why inner game is so important you have to believe you are succesful with women. A succesfull guy doesnt stress about picking up girls when he enters a venue, he knows he is succesful, girls are just one of the attractions in his experience.
Become successful until it is natural and automatic.

I apologize for not communicating in a a mass marketable way.
If you get it well, if not well

[Extremer]

Yeah u got it man - that is exactly what ive done - but u dnt have 2 pretend 2 be the prince charming whole interaction - u can show ur true self from the first second - what is important is that girls will notice u as opposed 2 other guys who always wear black, and just because there is a possibility of u being their prince they will treat u as one and open with ease. And later even if they realize that u r not the real prince but rather crazy adventurer guy i dnt think they will be any less happy 2 talk 2 u...:)

But i see what u mean and believe me im in no way saying play the mr right role - i completely agree with u that we should be ourselves - all im saying is wearing white/pink or any other open colors is kinda peacocking and it works 2 ur advantage:)

[bill85]

I'm new here and this post has certainly given me things to think about. Thanks for sharing.