Elements of Social Mastery - My Journal

[Elements]

INTRODUCTION

Hey guys, I have noticed on other forums dudes making journals on whatever forum they are on. Well this is going to be my own journal of my way getting to be a PUA. Feel free to read if you are interested. Comments/constructive critism/etc are welcome. Please be forward as possible because that is the only way to learn here. I am open minded and I like hearing different point of views that I do not see.

All in all this is for myself and its up to me I guess thats why it's called "self-improvement" to master this. I want to look back at past posts and see how much I grew and how I have changed. On July 17th 2009, I will be taking my licensure exam to be a registered nurse. For some of you who are unfamiliar with it, its like taking a license for the BAR exam, medical license, GRE, MCAT, etc. Once I pass that I am going to put 100% effort into game.

I will eat, sleep, drink game and work also. I have put game aside during my college carrier because I can not multi task and can only do one thing at a time. I am currently working on that. I would say I have put about 40% effort into game when I was in school.

Since working as a nurse, I am going to have to work every other weekend, which is a requirement for me at my job and most hospitals. Therefore I have to make use of the weekdays to go out as well.

My tentative Game Plan:
The days I do not work: I will run day game at the most random places and if I have earrands (malls, grocery stores, anywhere outside) and approach just whenever there is an opportunity.

I will try to keep a count of girls I approach key word "try" and have a approach odometer haha.

Regardless if I did not find out about the community, It is just in me to not stay at home. I hate staying at home and I feel as if there is more out there. Life is short and you're only young once. Why not live it up outside of the house? Also now that I am graduated I feel like "now whats next?"

As of now this is all I can think of what I plan on doing for the current moment.



Anyone is welcome to join me on my journey. PM me or leave a reply.

Thanks,

Element

www.elementsofsocialmastery.com

[npf87]

Well after looking at your webpage, i have a feeling that you are gonna do great. You spent loads of time on your field reports and analyzing them, which means that this is something that you are dedicated to do, and there is something inside that drives you to conquer everything. That's what most people lack is dedication. As long as you are committed, you're gonna go far kid.

[Elements]

Hey thanks for checking out my site. I was really busy to update this. Now I am up and running again!

[Elements]

Alright I am back in full force with my blog and will start updating this a lot more. Now that I am done with my school priorities I can put my 100% effort to PUA and everything else.

Before I get started on what happened to me today. I want to talk about the power of the smile =)

Back then when I used to go out to the clubs, I used to walk in with a straight face all hard and think I was bad ass. Yeah guys if you are doing this right now STOP! Start smiling at everyone and say a simple “Hi” followed with a smile or vice versa. You do not come off as creepy when you do not smile. When girls see those hard core guys who do not smile, I bet you think that they look scary or a rapist or something along those lines.

I read an article somewhere about just smiling. So I tried it everywhere I went, when someone made eye contact with me I would try to hold it and smile right before they look away. It works great with girls because you look at them then they smile back at you which give you a warm feeling. Well at least for me. So everywhere I go I smile with a Hi or just smile.

Anyway today, I was in Downtown Royal Oak, meeting up with some friends at Black Finn for a friends birthday. I was walking on Main Street passing all the restaurants. I was of course peacocked out with my hat slightly to the side, my new shades, leather cuff, jeans etc. As I was walking I saw 3 girls sitting outside talking and having dinner. I noticed one girl looking at me, she of course could not tell if I was looking at her or not since I had my sun glasses on. So I directly looked at her and just smiled at her and she smiled back. I do not know why I just think that is great thing to do but it is now my habit and I suggest you all make it a habit as well. Sometimes you never know when you say Hi and she says back to you “hows it going?”. Boom you can stop and talk to her.

So I was at the mall all day today with a friend and some how I can not open or approach sets during the day. I do not know why?! I wanted to work on day game but I am getting that AA. I know this is just like night game and they will talk to you but blah scared! So I started reading some tips about day game. I think I am going to try it tomorrow when I start grocery shopping. I will make an update about that with my progress.

-Element

[Elements]

Alright so I keep telling this to myself that I will start to keep updates.

THIS TIME I AM FOREAL!!!

I for some reason I keep hearing that if you keep writing field reports and keep track of your progress that you WILL get a lot better than not writing any field reports. I started to be all wishy washy about writing this but I am going to start.

So I am back again. I look at my old posts I keep telling myself that. Its kinda like going to the gym saying that you will start going consistently and then you dont end up doing anything. Well not this time.

Alright I am going out tonight and I will start up my field report tonight.

-Elements