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spark
01-18-2007, 01:04 AM
hey guys

looking for some help here so help a brother out. SO i was wondering what games do u play wif your target while building comfort. MY favorite routine game to play with the target is the cube , best friend test and the lying game and was hoping u guys can teach me more comfort building games to play wif my targets.

smoothlatinkid
01-18-2007, 01:21 AM
The question game. If you have the VAH, I believe it's listed there.

Also, Style's EV routine (for that, you can do a search.)

Also, check out Mystery's identity grounding routine, and tailor it to you.

Hope this helps.

spark
01-18-2007, 05:35 AM
thanks alot for the reply..by the way smoothlatinkid can u check your inbox cos i send u a mail requesting abt the ring finger routine

JimSmith
01-18-2007, 01:00 PM
what did u want to be when you were 7?
what were u like as a kid?

then you can ground ur identity relating it theirs. make it feel like u both went through life since a kid and are here now together.

Sovereign
01-18-2007, 01:07 PM
I've been teaching an Honesty game that works fairly well. You basically explain to her how you and her have a great opportunity, that since you barely know each other, you can both be completely and refreshingly honest with each other. Tell each other anything, because hell, you probably won't ever see each other again, right? So why not. She can start, ask you anything. You must answer honestly here. Then you ask her a question, try to start with some personal but surface stuff, move into some deeper issues, even her childhood, and then towards the end turn the questions sexual. Do not start off sexual unless she does first.

Flowz
01-19-2007, 05:23 PM
I've been teaching an Honesty game that works fairly well. You basically explain to her how you and her have a great opportunity, that since you barely know each other, you can both be completely and refreshingly honest with each other. Tell each other anything, because hell, you probably won't ever see each other again, right? So why not. She can start, ask you anything. You must answer honestly here. Then you ask her a question, try to start with some personal but surface stuff, move into some deeper issues, even her childhood, and then towards the end turn the questions sexual. Do not start off sexual unless she does first.
^^ Sovereign. .why wouldn't you start off sexual before she does??

I've field tested the question game countless amounts of times and have found that when you begin the sexual talk, it opens them up to it much faster.. The only time you don't wanna start off sexual with the question game is when the girl in question is LSE or particularly young..
One of the first question i ask on nearly EVERY occassion playing the Q game is "What size bed do you sleep on?" this question is great because depending on how they answer you can callibrate the rest of your questions from there..

spark, the only reason I'd advise you to stay away from sexaul topics (before she brings em up) is if you're not comfortable being sexual.. If you are then go for it..

Flowz..

Sovereign
01-19-2007, 06:12 PM
I don't start off sexually because my goal is to get into her head first, to make an incredible impression there, one she will never forget. I am not trying to turn her on for the hour or so in the bar and k-close. I want her dreaming about me, waking up in the morning hoping that I will call her.