mvx
07-08-2007, 03:17 PM
This is a technique developed by me recently. I am waiting for your feedback.
A3: M2F Interest - Intro & Direct (Ping-Pong) Screening
From Mystery: "How to get beautiful women into bed"
Screening
The idea is to get her hoping that she's good enough to qualify for you. After all, you are a high-value guy. Sure, you're curious about her, but you want to know more. Is she smart? Does she have a lot of friends? Does she have a good relationship with her family? Can she dance well? What's the most spontaneous thing she's done recently? Can she cook?
[...]
You don't want it to be explicit that you are screening her. Be very subtle, and she will realize it on her own accord, without thinking you're trying to make her feel screened. Somewhere in her mind an attraction wtich will flip and she'll think 'Hey, this guy is screening me to see if he wants to invest more.'
She naturally assumes that the man she is looking for will be selective. It's a behaviorr that she's been expecting and thus is a powerful DHV. It sets the right frame, it's the signal she's been waiting for, and it baits her to invest.
Now, there are several ways to do that:
I) Direct Screening (which i will explain later in this article; it is also my innovation to the Mystery Method)
II) Metaphorical Screening
III) Hoops.
I) You can do the Direct Screening either using the Bait-Hook-Reel-Release structure, or the Ping-Pong technique i will describe to you. (I just came up with the "Ping-Pong" name :D; i hope it's not too dumb).
II) The Metaphorical Screening is done using stories, metaphors, test games, role games. I will not go into this one.
III) Screening a girl through Hoops means literally asking her to do something, and then reward her if she complies. I will not go into this one either.
What I will focus on is the Direct Screening.
I've been thinking for a long time on a good way to transition from A2 to A3 smoothly. You can't just Neg the target, ignore her completly, and then, suddenly, just turn to her and ask her: "hey, what are your 3 best qualities?". It's just not smooth. So i came up with this routine. This is the A3 Intro Routine.
The Ping-Pong routine is pretty similar to the BHRR model. The difference is that BHRR focuses on COMMONALITIES (what's your fav color? wow, i like red too. i cant even talk to you now), while Ping-Pong focuses on the UN-commonalities, as this is forced by the A3 Intro Routine.
It is easy however to merge from Ping Pong to Bait-Hook-Reel-Release. So you can integrate them both in your game. The only rule is that you follow up with Ping-Pong, because, as you will see, Bait Hook Reel Release is not appropiate (because it focuses on the commonalities between you and your target).
This is the A3 Intro Routine that i propose to you guys:
Hey, you know what they say... that each person is unique. And if you think for a moment, indeed it is so. I mena.. we all have an unique DNA.. a unique smell.. an unique voice. But hey.. this makes animals different from each other two... But what also makes us humans unique from each other is our personalities!
If you pay attention to the usual interractions between people, you will see that most of the people out there try to find what they have in common with others.
But i like to discover the differences between people. I like to discover the uniqueness in each person. It is a lot more interesting.
There you go. You can tell that routine to the whole group! Just after a DHV story, or even after a Neg. It's smooth and foolproof.
Right after that, you can just turn to your target and start the Ping-Pong sequence. It consists in three phases:
1. You ask her something that would proove her uniqueness to you.
2. You reward her with an IOI.
3. She will most likely ask you back the same thing. (Otherwise, it's an IOD, and you are still in A2). So, you will just tell her the DHV story that you already have in your Routines Stock.
You repeat this process for each question you ask her.
I hope it is now clear why it is called The Ping-Pong Sequence.
Here you have a few questions example that you can use for your Ping-Pong Sequence:
1. So.. what makes you different? (--this is best used RIGHT after the A3 Intro Routine; if she can't come up with anything good -this can happen- just follow up with the next question, thus helping her answer this main question with small chunks)
2. What's the craziest thing you've done lately?
3. If you could leave in any place in the world, what woudl that be, and why?
4. Tell me something weird about you.
5. Tell me an important event in your life.
6. What hobbies to you have?
Now, i would like to stress that this routine is USELESS if you don't have GOOD DHV stories to come up with when the girl asks you back the same question.
So, for the example listed above, make sure you have: a good story about a crazy thing you've done, an interesting thing about you that makes you unique, a cool place you'd like to live and the reason for that etc.
This is it guys. Have fun field-testing this. It looks to be a pretty solid structure.
May the Oxytocin be with you !!
A3: M2F Interest - Intro & Direct (Ping-Pong) Screening
From Mystery: "How to get beautiful women into bed"
Screening
The idea is to get her hoping that she's good enough to qualify for you. After all, you are a high-value guy. Sure, you're curious about her, but you want to know more. Is she smart? Does she have a lot of friends? Does she have a good relationship with her family? Can she dance well? What's the most spontaneous thing she's done recently? Can she cook?
[...]
You don't want it to be explicit that you are screening her. Be very subtle, and she will realize it on her own accord, without thinking you're trying to make her feel screened. Somewhere in her mind an attraction wtich will flip and she'll think 'Hey, this guy is screening me to see if he wants to invest more.'
She naturally assumes that the man she is looking for will be selective. It's a behaviorr that she's been expecting and thus is a powerful DHV. It sets the right frame, it's the signal she's been waiting for, and it baits her to invest.
Now, there are several ways to do that:
I) Direct Screening (which i will explain later in this article; it is also my innovation to the Mystery Method)
II) Metaphorical Screening
III) Hoops.
I) You can do the Direct Screening either using the Bait-Hook-Reel-Release structure, or the Ping-Pong technique i will describe to you. (I just came up with the "Ping-Pong" name :D; i hope it's not too dumb).
II) The Metaphorical Screening is done using stories, metaphors, test games, role games. I will not go into this one.
III) Screening a girl through Hoops means literally asking her to do something, and then reward her if she complies. I will not go into this one either.
What I will focus on is the Direct Screening.
I've been thinking for a long time on a good way to transition from A2 to A3 smoothly. You can't just Neg the target, ignore her completly, and then, suddenly, just turn to her and ask her: "hey, what are your 3 best qualities?". It's just not smooth. So i came up with this routine. This is the A3 Intro Routine.
The Ping-Pong routine is pretty similar to the BHRR model. The difference is that BHRR focuses on COMMONALITIES (what's your fav color? wow, i like red too. i cant even talk to you now), while Ping-Pong focuses on the UN-commonalities, as this is forced by the A3 Intro Routine.
It is easy however to merge from Ping Pong to Bait-Hook-Reel-Release. So you can integrate them both in your game. The only rule is that you follow up with Ping-Pong, because, as you will see, Bait Hook Reel Release is not appropiate (because it focuses on the commonalities between you and your target).
This is the A3 Intro Routine that i propose to you guys:
Hey, you know what they say... that each person is unique. And if you think for a moment, indeed it is so. I mena.. we all have an unique DNA.. a unique smell.. an unique voice. But hey.. this makes animals different from each other two... But what also makes us humans unique from each other is our personalities!
If you pay attention to the usual interractions between people, you will see that most of the people out there try to find what they have in common with others.
But i like to discover the differences between people. I like to discover the uniqueness in each person. It is a lot more interesting.
There you go. You can tell that routine to the whole group! Just after a DHV story, or even after a Neg. It's smooth and foolproof.
Right after that, you can just turn to your target and start the Ping-Pong sequence. It consists in three phases:
1. You ask her something that would proove her uniqueness to you.
2. You reward her with an IOI.
3. She will most likely ask you back the same thing. (Otherwise, it's an IOD, and you are still in A2). So, you will just tell her the DHV story that you already have in your Routines Stock.
You repeat this process for each question you ask her.
I hope it is now clear why it is called The Ping-Pong Sequence.
Here you have a few questions example that you can use for your Ping-Pong Sequence:
1. So.. what makes you different? (--this is best used RIGHT after the A3 Intro Routine; if she can't come up with anything good -this can happen- just follow up with the next question, thus helping her answer this main question with small chunks)
2. What's the craziest thing you've done lately?
3. If you could leave in any place in the world, what woudl that be, and why?
4. Tell me something weird about you.
5. Tell me an important event in your life.
6. What hobbies to you have?
Now, i would like to stress that this routine is USELESS if you don't have GOOD DHV stories to come up with when the girl asks you back the same question.
So, for the example listed above, make sure you have: a good story about a crazy thing you've done, an interesting thing about you that makes you unique, a cool place you'd like to live and the reason for that etc.
This is it guys. Have fun field-testing this. It looks to be a pretty solid structure.
May the Oxytocin be with you !!