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Indestructible
05-31-2009, 07:24 PM
[Why you should not be intimidated]

Some guys are writing to me, saying that my posts are intimidating. They feel like girls will be watching their every move now.

1) I never post any Field/Lay reports on Facebook without permission of a guy, so don't be intimidated, i always ask them first - for privacy reasons. I do post some on forums without permission = a) ONLY if I feel that FR/LR will be helpful to MANY other guys and b) because no one knows them on here (I post no pictures without permission).

2) Do not be intimidated by my posts – I get intimidated by guys (and girls) too, especially in group settings. I am not bisexual - the real reason i started this whole thing is to figure out Social Dynamics, because i got tired of feeling like the low female on the totem pole. I feel like a sucker when i try to open GROUPS. I cant talk in group settings - am too shy. So i loose by balls (haha). I hate that feeling when i have to eject out of the SET cuz i have nothing to say. So most of the time i shut up and listen. Just like you guys, I am trying to improve my Game, too, just because i feel this is a skill set i need to succeed in life.

Plus, no girls are really watching you this closely. EVEN if they ARE – remember, we are LOOKING for Alphas instinctively!!! We are willing to forgive ANY mistakes as long as you act a little bit more Alpha than you did in the past (before reading this). When in field, we are all running on EMOTIONS. Remember, I didn’t give a f*** that ROCKSTAR-Alpha was running Game on me. And I forgave his Mis-calibrations. JUST BY READING MY POSTS you have ALREADY improved your GAME!!!! ANYTHING you run on her is gonna be x100 times better than you have EVER RAN IN THE PAST!!!! She will notice IMPROVEMENT, not hound you for your mistakes. Because now your mistakes have diminished considerably!!! She will be more attracted to you because you are acting ALPHA now!!!!


[WHY my posts are so long and boring :PPP]

1) A lot of guys are writing me (on both forums and Facebook) and telling me my posts are too long… They are long for a reason = not all guys are at your level, some of them are just starting out in the Game. I want no details to elude them. If I wanted to entertain you, I would have posted a video of Rockstar-Alpha putting peanut butter and jelly on his balls for his friends’ dog to lick and said: “Here, watch this guy’s BL, this guy gets laid like a ROCKSTAR!”. You would have been like, HUH?But I sincerely believe that explaining in writing is much better for your game.

And also, ALL guys tell me: Well, “I read it, but lost of people won’t”. THOSE WHO NEED IT – WILL read. The rest – their loss. :)

2) Advice for NEWBIES: A lot of guys tell me they are fine in overcoming AA [Approach Anxiety], it’s just they lose their balls when trying to escalate. How to overcome this fear? Create A SAFETY NET for yourself: Run a BUNCH of COMPLIANCE TESTS before you escalate. Let’s say you are talking to a girl. Keep talking, then say: “Here, hold my drink for a second, I need to tie my shoe”, and then keep talking. Offer it to her, if she takes it and holds it, she just passed your CT!!! Keep doing this. Put your hat on the counter while talking. 10 min into conversation tell her: “Hey, I gotta run to the loo really quick, would you guard my hat for a sec?” SMILE. So keep increasing the difficulty of tests. Offer your hand WHILE you are talking about something else (MYSTERY does this all the time), if she takes it, she passed CT. Keep increasing level of difficulty.

So after you ran like 7-10 CT’s over the course of 2 hrs, you are SAFE to escalate further – offer your hand, tell her: “Here, do a little spin for me”. Or move about 5 ft down the length of the bar, talk to bartender, motion for her to come closer, as if you need her opinion on something about what you are talking with him. Ask here, My friend Roger here has a problem, do you think it’s cheating when a girl… (launch into one of Mystery’s routines).

Keep increasing level of difficulty, meanwhile RUN your game – KEEP TALKING, KEEP ELUDING, KEEP Playing BHRR game, etc. Keep her emotionally ENGAGED!!!! You can end with “give me a little kiss on the cheek…”. If she does – reward her!!! SHE is escalating. REWARD her after she passes CTs!!!! If she fails: NEG/ignore. This way you can gauge when to escalate and won’t run into rejection!!!! You have created a SAFETY NET for yourself. You are green light to escalate!!!!

[Why MM is so awesome/kickass/amazing]

Learning Game might seem like a lot of hard work, but trust me, it’s MUCH less work than becoming a millionaire or a rock star. It will take you 1-6 months to master it. As opposed to 7-10-20 years on accumulating riches/getting fame. And even then, some millionaires and rock stars can’t ever get chicks to like them for who they are – just for their money or fame. So when the money/fame is gone, chicks FLAKE. Mystery Method provides you with a skill set that you will have at your disposal throughout life. No one can take it away from you.

Happy sarging, mateys!

BigJohnson
05-31-2009, 10:03 PM
Good stuff, this is informative.

There are a few key things life has taught me. One, is that information is useless if your analyzing the pointers intended to guide you instead of following them. This is how people manifest feelings of intimidation, and fear.

The things you are describing are feelings, feelings you have in response to us. Feelings are very hard to capture in words, impossible for someone to comprehend without experiencing them. The reason why the text appears so intimidating is simply because there is so much of it. The most effective way to teach someone about something is to simplify it. I found women, people, myself, the world, the universe, and even you much more easily understood with simplicity. Its ironic. The infinite detail in something so complex, in a humerous twist is actually the most simple, perfect concept. Just like everything else. A bit too much thought makes things appear complicated, intimidating, and fearful.

I understand you'd like to get all the details out there for those who are not yet aware. If a man is capable of love, he is already prepared to begin opening sets and applying the basic principals.

I think you have a bit of unwinding to do yourself love. :D

-TruTh-
06-01-2009, 09:39 AM
You don't intimadate me in the least... I am delighted in your words.

Indestructible
06-02-2009, 11:06 PM
@ Big Johnson: YOU are absolutely 100% right!!! A lot of things are simple, once you are ready for them.

However, even if a guy is ready to love, he still needs some skills to get that girl. I think you are right in that everything will come to him once he is ready (including the people who can teach him those skills).

But for him to acquire them he first needs to learn about them in the physical universe. That's where my report comes in.

That is why for some guys, like Truth (below) reading my report is a breeze = they are, as you put it, "ready", regardless of the amount of info. While others toil = they are not ready.

In general, i believe the same thing as you do: once the need/desire/love arises = the rest will come. In whatever form. Be it my report or a MM across their path - forgotten by some stranger @ a Starbucks table. I believe in fate and higher power.

@ Truth: YEY!!!! (I love ALL your posts by the way, dude = been reading them for ~2 months now!!!)

BigJohnson
06-03-2009, 11:21 PM
@ Big Johnson: YOU are absolutely 100% right!!! A lot of things are simple, once you are ready for them.

However, even if a guy is ready to love, he still needs some skills to get that girl. I think you are right in that everything will come to him once he is ready (including the people who can teach him those skills).

But for him to acquire them he first needs to learn about them in the physical universe. That's where my report comes in.

That is why for some guys, like Truth (below) reading my report is a breeze = they are, as you put it, "ready", regardless of the amount of info. While others toil = they are not ready.

In general, i believe the same thing as you do: once the need/desire/love arises = the rest will come. In whatever form. Be it my report or a MM across their path - forgotten by some stranger @ a Starbucks table. I believe in fate and higher power.

@ Truth: YEY!!!! (I love ALL your posts by the way, dude = been reading them for ~2 months now!!!)

Sure.. It is funny, in a way.

Fate has a random plan, if that makes sense.. Our higher power that exists is displayed differently through everyone who realizes it, you could say.. We are our higher power.. but, its just as easy to overlook as it is to bury it completely. :eek:

Anyway, report on HAC HB9 - hb9, how modest.. You didn't even say 10. :P