LifeWithBG
01-17-2007, 07:22 PM
When the ONS girl (http://lifewithbg.blogspot.com/2007/01/fr-you-are-my-victim.html) left last Saturday morning, she left me her MSN. For 2 days I couldn't decide what to do with it, but then I decided to add it to my contact list. I think she wasted her workday last Monday by talking to me (hey, I was procrastinating.. needed distract me).
Then yesterday she shot me a message in the evening and we started talking. She started saying that she wanted to see me again and I just kept acting a little bit aloof. Not really going for it, but not dismissing it either. She says she's online because she's waiting for her laundry to finish. I tell her I'm online, because I'm postponing the dishes that need to be washed. It's around 10pm. She says her laundry will be finished in 30 minutes and asks me if I want to come over to help her hang it up. I answer that I still have some things to do and still need to have dinner. She says she has food and a big kitchen, but I tell her I prefer to cook and eat at home. And I actually do; so that's what I did. The fact that I do everything on my own terms subcommunicates a certain 'alphaness'.
After dinner, around 11pm, I hit her up on MSN again and figured out where she lived. I went over.
I arrive and this girl's obviously more into me than I am into her. She was saying stuff about how much she likes me, or that I was looking good. I simply don't comment on these statements or say thanks, because I can't return them (1, because it would lose it's strength. 2, because ehh, she likes me more than I like her). We kind of set up the terms of the relationship we will have I think. I get to do what I want, she gets to do what I want, but this deal will obviously be more advantageous for me. Thing is, this is the only way she can be with me, and she knows it and accepts it. If I see that it's starting to make her unhappy I'll break it off.
We had a couple of beers while listening to music and having deep conversations. Then we made out and slept together. She had to go to work early, I went home, got an apple from a fruit store and went to bed.
First f-close of 2007, someone I met this year actually, and it's only been 11 days. Let's keep this up, haha.
Then yesterday she shot me a message in the evening and we started talking. She started saying that she wanted to see me again and I just kept acting a little bit aloof. Not really going for it, but not dismissing it either. She says she's online because she's waiting for her laundry to finish. I tell her I'm online, because I'm postponing the dishes that need to be washed. It's around 10pm. She says her laundry will be finished in 30 minutes and asks me if I want to come over to help her hang it up. I answer that I still have some things to do and still need to have dinner. She says she has food and a big kitchen, but I tell her I prefer to cook and eat at home. And I actually do; so that's what I did. The fact that I do everything on my own terms subcommunicates a certain 'alphaness'.
After dinner, around 11pm, I hit her up on MSN again and figured out where she lived. I went over.
I arrive and this girl's obviously more into me than I am into her. She was saying stuff about how much she likes me, or that I was looking good. I simply don't comment on these statements or say thanks, because I can't return them (1, because it would lose it's strength. 2, because ehh, she likes me more than I like her). We kind of set up the terms of the relationship we will have I think. I get to do what I want, she gets to do what I want, but this deal will obviously be more advantageous for me. Thing is, this is the only way she can be with me, and she knows it and accepts it. If I see that it's starting to make her unhappy I'll break it off.
We had a couple of beers while listening to music and having deep conversations. Then we made out and slept together. She had to go to work early, I went home, got an apple from a fruit store and went to bed.
First f-close of 2007, someone I met this year actually, and it's only been 11 days. Let's keep this up, haha.