Sarging in Asia (Singapore)

[Scarred]

I am 19, and I only very recently got my hands on Neil Strauss' book which led me to know of the existence of such a community. Admittedly, I would say myself to be an AFC. I have done a little reading on several ideas floating around on this forum, and I must say that I find them rather interesting.

The problem is this. While I have not been in the field very much, I seem to think that most of the ideas may not apply in Asia, or more precisely, where I live, in Singapore. I've frequented night clubs several times before, and while I have never grown enough balls to actually try my hand at pickup, my gut and common sense just tells me that the common ideas discussed here would not work.

The mentality of the people is different, and people would naturally react differently.

My question, is therefore, if there are any Singaporean sargers out there, who can share their experiences, hits and misses, and methods?

[Enigma]

The problem is this. While I have not been in the field very much, I seem to think that most of the ideas may not apply in Asia, or more precisely, where I live, in Singapore. I've frequented night clubs several times before, and while I have never grown enough balls to actually try my hand at pickup, my gut and common sense just tells me that the common ideas discussed here would not work.


Stop right there. Instead of asking on this board, start field testing the stuff. I'm from Brazil and inspite of the culture here being different, it works. I think it should work everywhere, although you might need to make adaptations depending on the culture.

If you can't approach on your own, find a wing. If there is no lair in your area you can found a lair. You can find wings by posting on the internet, asking for other guys in your area that want to go out and meet women, believe me, there are a lot who want! :)

Hope this helps!

[Enigma]

I just found this topic in another forum, it's about Singapore. Have fun!

http://forum.charismaarts.com/viewtopic.php?id=1809

[Scarred]

Thank you for the link. In a way, it was an interesting read.

Seems there is a lair. There must be some experts around then.

That said though, I'd have to say that for any man who is white, foreign, or looks foreign, picking up ladies is not that hard. There are what we call the Sarong-Party-Girls (SPGs), who are almost begging to be picked up by one of them. You see them at work at every nightspot everywhere here.

No offence meant to anyone though!

[Enigma]

That said though, I'd have to say that for any man who is white, foreign, or looks foreign, picking up ladies is not that hard. There are what we call the Sarong-Party-Girls (SPGs),

Hey, I'm already on my way! :D

Just joking...

[Mild_Seven]

my gut and common sense just tells me that the common ideas discussed here would not work.

The mentality of the people is different, and people would naturally react differently.

I don't live in Singapore, I live in Japan, but Japan is as different as it gets from America and I can tell you that the Mystery Method structure works. The specifics are often different, and you have to calibrate to the specific environment. Get out there and field test the stuff, and develop your own Singaporean style. Since you're new to the game, you'll calibrate to the ways of Singapore right from the start.

And don't start thinking "No fair, the white guys get free pussy and I get none!" All around Asia it's the same --- white guys can get a very small fraction of the population (foreigner-groupies) without much trouble, but for the vast majority of girls it is MUCH HARDER for us to sarge than it is for locals. A lot of girls are terrified of us, think we are low-class, think we have AIDS, think we are looking for a hooker, or whatever. Most of us are sick of the foreigner-groupies, and to get other girls our game has to be SUPER TIGHT. You have an advantage, don't waste it with limiting beliefs.

[Romeo69]

Hey Guys,
Me and a fellow PUA have been running bootcamps(Day/Night game) here in Singapore.We teach more natural game and training is much more practical than theory. Bootcamps will be held in a continuous process from friday(night game),saturday(day, then night),sunday(day,free and easy). We only take 2 students at a time.Interested parties can drop me a pm and we'll get back to you.

[azazels_wolf]

I'm moving this to the Asia community section. You may find others from Singapore there as well.

[Kelvin_mystery]

Mr Romeo69... i would love to see you guys coach...it would be a sight(i wouldn't risk my money or worst bet on it). Anyway if you guys are interested. PM me as i will be going sarging every friday and saturday, if you guys really want to get off your lazy butt and approach or smashing approach anxiety or really want to improve your game, the best way to do it is to just do it.


cheers,
kelvin