Problems with Worthiness

[Braveheart]

I have decent game and can usually attract girls that i'm around in familiar social environments(work,School,ect.). My problem though is that because I grew up in a household that was fairly strict and didn't allow me to go and do things with new friends i've met, it feels awkward for me to take relationships out of certain environments. I'm 18 and i still live at home, and im kind of embaressed of bringing a girl back to my house. I've tried ignoring the feeling but its a strong feeling. I also live in a small town, so fucking up is not exactly the way to go. I do however take my game to bigger and more socialy acceptable cities around me, which works somewhat. I'm going to be starting college soon and im working hard for success, but that takes time.

Do you guys have any idea's of how i can break this feeling and be more social with meeting new people?

Thanks in advance

[Dream]

One of my best friends lives at home in my old town and has a similar situation. Decent game (can carry on a convo) but no where to really pull.

Sounds like your off to college soon so its a short term problem, in the meantime try hanging out at her place (just bypass the whole problem).

-dream

[Braveheart]

Thanks Dream, I think once i move out and am successful i'll be better off. For now though its time to tweak my game.

everyone else feel free to give advice, thanks

[relics]

Why don't you want to take her home?

[Braveheart]

I don't want to bring her home because i feel my mom is embaressing and for that matter asks dumb questions like "do you goto church" lol. my dad is cool as hell, but my mom ruins it. I don't know if i mentioned this earlier but she's way over pretective and doesnt realize i'm 18.

[relics]

So then, if you can't stand up to your own parents and deal with them....what makes her think that you can stand up to the entire world that's against you two to further consumate your survival?

Who the fuck are you to want freedom, girls, and independance if you can't even stand up to your own mother at 18! (I've been doing it since 13:) )

Trust me man, both of my parents are ignorant as hell (from phillipines and spain) and quite stupid. But I love 'em. Will I take them to meet girls? Not if I can avoid it. I still live with mine folks, and plenty a girls have hung out with me in my room without their objection.

[peanut]

wtf are you going on about? stand up to his parents??? his parents arent doing anything wrong, the feeling is with him and dude, i can totally relate to that. i dont bring girls home, and to be honest im not going to until i live on my own. i know exactly how you feel. its easy though, i drive so i dont spend much time at home anyway. Im always out and about and my social life and home life are kept totally seperate.

[Braveheart]

Relics, i always stand up to my parents lol, but they aren't going to change. I can't exactly bring a girl home and say "MOM DONT ASK STUPID QUESTIONS" or "MOM DONT TALK", cause that would make me look like a fuckin idiot. I do talk with my mom all the time about how she needs to lighten up. I agree with you though man and i really wish i could get that point across.

thanks for the advice

[relics]

He says his mom's overbearing.

Did I read a little too much into it?

just Bee line for your bedroom and lock the door:)

[!¡!ZAZI!¡!]

wtf are you going on about? stand up to his parents??? his parents arent doing anything wrong, the feeling is with him and dude, i can totally relate to that. i dont bring girls home, and to be honest im not going to until i live on my own. i know exactly how you feel. its easy though, i drive so i dont spend much time at home anyway. Im always out and about and my social life and home life are kept totally seperate.

I have to agree with peanut here... my mom's a big user of the whole "My roof, my rules" philosophy. Unless she's a girlfriend, she does NOT want her in the house. It's *possible* to sneak a girl past, but that would involve disarming alarms, getting hidden keys to open the bars, and sneaking in and out of my bedroom window (no easy task). Dude, just wait for college. With the game you get up to speed, it'll be MIND BOGGLING with the amount of girls you can get.

[relics]

Okay, I rest my case.

Good luck with moving out guys.

[Braveheart]

thanks for all the help and advice people. :)