Maverick
01-17-2007, 06:02 PM
OK most guys fall into two categories when it comes to the bedroom. Some of them lead, others follow. Those that follow don't have a say in what happens. Those who lead often lead incorrectly. When trying to convince someone to do something for you it's much easier to change their beliefs slowly than ramming full speed into them like a semi. Agree with them, go along with them and then slowly change their belief into yours. The same can be done in the bedroom.
As soon as you step out of the hall and into the boudoir leave your logic at the door. There's no place for it here. Continue on making out like you were previously (because you were escalating weren't you? :cool: ) Here is the crucial moment. Most guys would immediately go for the girls shirt. Wrong. It makes it far too easy for her to shoot you down. Make it easier for her by having her take your shirt off. Then having her take her shirt off. Lead the girl, don't lead the interaction. This way she can't directly shoot you down.
If logic gets in the way on her part (IE: she holds back) throw an illogical statement into the mix.
"Hey, be nice otherwise you're gonna have to go home!" (said only if you're at her place) or "Hey! Get off my bed" (when you're on hers). I've gone so far as to gasp, point at the window and say "OMG! A Unicorn!" she laughed, I grinned and said "take off your pants" the second time around. It worked.
The more illogical the more it gets her mind away from the current situation and more likely she'll continue. If you sense the interaction is gonna come to a halt you MUST stop it first.
"Omg babe this is so hot, we shouldn't be doing this." As you teasingly push her away. "Mmmm but i want you so bad." and pull her forward. Make her feel desired. Your ultimate goal must be her pleasure before yours.
I found a beautiful transition a while ago and I almost don't want to let it out. When fooling around with her say "Omg babe, this is so hot. We've gotta stop. Look what you're doing to me." as you take her hand and place it on your already hard (hopefully) package. Push her away, gaze into her eyes, continue making out. Leather, rinse, repeat.
Use a combination of push and pull, illogical statements to disarm logical objections and leading the woman, not the situation and it should significantly reduce your last minute resistance.
Cheers.
-Maverick
As soon as you step out of the hall and into the boudoir leave your logic at the door. There's no place for it here. Continue on making out like you were previously (because you were escalating weren't you? :cool: ) Here is the crucial moment. Most guys would immediately go for the girls shirt. Wrong. It makes it far too easy for her to shoot you down. Make it easier for her by having her take your shirt off. Then having her take her shirt off. Lead the girl, don't lead the interaction. This way she can't directly shoot you down.
If logic gets in the way on her part (IE: she holds back) throw an illogical statement into the mix.
"Hey, be nice otherwise you're gonna have to go home!" (said only if you're at her place) or "Hey! Get off my bed" (when you're on hers). I've gone so far as to gasp, point at the window and say "OMG! A Unicorn!" she laughed, I grinned and said "take off your pants" the second time around. It worked.
The more illogical the more it gets her mind away from the current situation and more likely she'll continue. If you sense the interaction is gonna come to a halt you MUST stop it first.
"Omg babe this is so hot, we shouldn't be doing this." As you teasingly push her away. "Mmmm but i want you so bad." and pull her forward. Make her feel desired. Your ultimate goal must be her pleasure before yours.
I found a beautiful transition a while ago and I almost don't want to let it out. When fooling around with her say "Omg babe, this is so hot. We've gotta stop. Look what you're doing to me." as you take her hand and place it on your already hard (hopefully) package. Push her away, gaze into her eyes, continue making out. Leather, rinse, repeat.
Use a combination of push and pull, illogical statements to disarm logical objections and leading the woman, not the situation and it should significantly reduce your last minute resistance.
Cheers.
-Maverick