Field Report: what went wrong?

[EcCo]

Alright guys, this is my first field report since i entered the community. Today was a good day, and I was in a great mood all day. I went out to a club/bar (mostly bar) near Square one in Mississauga called Failte Irish Pub. It was a buddy of mines birthday. I got there pretty early with a few of my friend. A bunch of people I knew eventually came. Anyway, I thought tonight would be the first night I tried some routines and tried to use this stuff in the field. I knew that it was going to be hard, but I remained optimistic. My first chance came about 15 min after coming when I noticed a group of 6-8’s standing on the outside patio. My buddy Moe actually pointed them out to me.. He said he recognized two of the girls as students at the University of Toronto at Mississauga where I take my classes. I told him to introduce me. He hesitated because he did not know them but I convinced them. Right away I had good vibe from the girls. I used the opener in which a friend of mine is forced to wear thongs because his gf likes it. It got them talking and they did not think I was weird at all. I was completely blown away. I also befriended the guy in the group by complementing him on his shirt and giving him a high five. All was going well. It was that easy. Next I found out that two of the girls were really close friends. So I played a game with them that I saw some guy do on You-Tube in which I tested the girls psychic connection. What I did was take each by the hand and used their hands to draw a letter. I explained that if they both got the same letter than their mental energy was congruent. They thought it was really fun. They asked me if I was some kind of psychic. I denied it. They were having fun and asking me about myself. I kind of tried to ignore the one I was more interested in but It was hard for me. I told them that they were cool girls and that it was nice meeting them. I told them to come sit with us and pointed up to our table. I excused myself and left. I knew they would come back and I was right. About 15 min later the one of this girls grabbed my shoulders. She tried to spell something on my back. I told her I had no idea what it is. She said it was monkey. I had no idea how to respond. I introduced her and her friend (who came with her) to the group of people and sat in my chair like I was this shit. We kept talking and she was showing me good IOI’s. I tried to do another game with her, but by this time a had a few beers and I couldn’t remember what to say! It totally showed. I should not have drank. She was in my hands. I kind of got a bit nervous and the conversation slowed down a bit. Her friends had left after a buddy of mine tried to hit on her. Eventually the girl I was talking to excused herself too, because her friend left. I did not know what to do. I blew it. I wasn’t ready to give up. I told a buddy of mine ( who is actually very successful with girls) to come with me to wing. I explained to him that it would be better to try and open up groups together. He’s a bit of a natural and girls are always attracted to him for some reason I do not understand. He can’t really keep them in the long run though, because he’s just a party animal. I and he opened up a huge group of about 9 people. Everyone loved us. But I think we were both after the same girl and we were working too hard for her. Neither of us got anywhere with her. I tried to number close but it just wouldn’t work. I tried to make it seem like it was her idea. NAW. My buddy went to the washroom while I rejoined the group to chat (my friends). He came back 30 min later with a cute hb7 and a hb8. The hb7 was the one he was into. But he introduced me to the other girls. I ran the same routines on these girls. The girls were a little pretty drunk. I felt manipulative. Anyway we went the dance floor, and even though I got many IOI’s from the hb8 she still wanted to be around her friend and my buddy all the time. I didn’t know how to keep her attention, despite leaving a few times and telling her I had to go and showing up again. I grabbed her onto the dance floor and everything was great but eventually she pulled away to go be near her friend. By this point I was frustrated and ready to call it a night. I have learned a lot from this experience.. SHIT! I’m so glad I finally went out and tested this stuff. I’m really eager to learn. I hope you guys have some constructive criticism.

Peace OUT!
feeling :cool: and :mad:

[takos]

you strike me as someone who cared too much in the situation, remember you're just going out for practice and you shouldn't care about any given situation that much. Also, You could've jokingly told her that she should learn how to spell properly and that didn't feel like "monkey" at all

[Dream]

Alright guys, this is my first field report since i entered the community. Today was a good day, and I was in a great mood all day. I went out to a club/bar (mostly bar) near Square one in Mississauga called Failte Irish Pub. It was a buddy of mines birthday. I got there pretty early with a few of my friend. A bunch of people I knew eventually came. Anyway, I thought tonight would be the first night I tried some routines and tried to use this stuff in the field. I knew that it was going to be hard, but I remained optimistic. My first chance came about 15 min after coming when I noticed a group of 6-8’s standing on the outside patio. My buddy Moe actually pointed them out to me.. He said he recognized two of the girls as students at the University of Toronto at Mississauga where I take my classes. I told him to introduce me. He hesitated because he did not know them but I convinced them. Right away I had good vibe from the girls. I used the opener in which a friend of mine is forced to wear thongs because his gf likes it. It got them talking and they did not think I was weird at all. I was completely blown away. I also befriended the guy in the group by complementing him on his shirt and giving him a high five. All was going well. It was that easy. Next I found out that two of the girls were really close friends. So I played a game with them that I saw some guy do on You-Tube in which I tested the girls psychic connection. What I did was take each by the hand and used their hands to draw a letter. I explained that if they both got the same letter than their mental energy was congruent. They thought it was really fun. They asked me if I was some kind of psychic. I denied it. They were having fun and asking me about myself. I kind of tried to ignore the one I was more interested in but It was hard for me. I told them that they were cool girls and that it was nice meeting them. I told them to come sit with us and pointed up to our table. I excused myself and left. I knew they would come back and I was right. About 15 min later the one of this girls grabbed my shoulders. She tried to spell something on my back. I told her I had no idea what it is. She said it was monkey. I had no idea how to respond. I introduced her and her friend (who came with her) to the group of people and sat in my chair like I was this shit. We kept talking and she was showing me good IOI’s. I tried to do another game with her, but by this time a had a few beers and I couldn’t remember what to say! It totally showed. I should not have drank. She was in my hands. I kind of got a bit nervous and the conversation slowed down a bit. Her friends had left after a buddy of mine tried to hit on her. Eventually the girl I was talking to excused herself too, because her friend left. I did not know what to do. I blew it. I wasn’t ready to give up. I told a buddy of mine ( who is actually very successful with girls) to come with me to wing. I explained to him that it would be better to try and open up groups together. He’s a bit of a natural and girls are always attracted to him for some reason I do not understand. He can’t really keep them in the long run though, because he’s just a party animal. I and he opened up a huge group of about 9 people. Everyone loved us. But I think we were both after the same girl and we were working too hard for her. Neither of us got anywhere with her. I tried to number close but it just wouldn’t work. I tried to make it seem like it was her idea. NAW. My buddy went to the washroom while I rejoined the group to chat (my friends). He came back 30 min later with a cute hb7 and a hb8. The hb7 was the one he was into. But he introduced me to the other girls. I ran the same routines on these girls. The girls were a little pretty drunk. I felt manipulative. Anyway we went the dance floor, and even though I got many IOI’s from the hb8 she still wanted to be around her friend and my buddy all the time. I didn’t know how to keep her attention, despite leaving a few times and telling her I had to go and showing up again. I grabbed her onto the dance floor and everything was great but eventually she pulled away to go be near her friend. By this point I was frustrated and ready to call it a night. I have learned a lot from this experience.. SHIT! I’m so glad I finally went out and tested this stuff. I’m really eager to learn. I hope you guys have some constructive criticism.

Peace OUT!
feeling :cool: and :mad:


Clean this up into paragraphs and youll get way more responses.

-dream

[EcCo]

Thanks dream. It has been done!