Hired Guns

[Jay Money]

hey I just recently got into the game and have I seen some wonders! Ive been running some game on some friends I have known for a long time and let me tell you its one of the greatest ways to practice, but nothing compares to learning when you crash and burn, it actually humbles you and when you finally close you look and say damn that was hella worth it. But besides all that boring stuff I wanted to know how to attack those "hired guns" as Mystery states. It's quite interesting I attempted to run the game on a 32 year old 9.5 HB at a party I was at.. keep in mind I am 19, I opened up with David D's Female opinion guy pay on first date.. worked like a charm.. i discover later on in A2 she was actually hired by FOX for the sake of promotion running bars enticing guys and girls to buy drinks or purchase several items, she's traveled the world, drives porsches for fun, and is basically hooked up in the world because of her connections.. I ran the cube test and she gets all smart saying things like "there's a cube in the middle of a field WTF i wouldn't really stare at it" someone else decided to play along and i gave them their analysis. I then proceed to try Style's Bar bet 5 wrong answer game, but then again she just bullshits me when I ask the question what state are we in, she'd say dumbass comments "like ure mom". I take her reaction to my questions as an IOI, I DLV her and she then proceeds to kiss me on the cheek. but soon after she starts bashing my gear i was wearing to peacock.. now is this whole situation an older hotter woman protecting herself or do i just need more experience in this area?

[Dream_]

Id like a resopnse to this too.

[suamijee]

In my experience... (with women in western australia).

First explanation:
when she keeps bashing you, and saying shit like it's your mom, etc... it's just a congruence test. and she's probably a fun person who has a great sense of humour.

she knows from the fact that you're sarging her, that you've got a certain high status. but of course, she thinks you could be faking it. so she tests you to see how congruent you are with your personality and frame.

Think about it: which other 19yr old has the guts and gall to bust the balls of a 29yr old HB who's been around the world? only a 19yr old guy with high status.
I really like the way in which you assumed her reactions were IOI's, and stuck to your game plan. RESPECT. Just keep on sarging. You'll score with at least 70% the older women you hit on.

2nd Explanation:

(maybe she thinks you're too young for her. and that's why she keeps bashing you. but she finds you entertaining and wants to keep you around to give her some mental stimulation.)
i've had some women who've just written me off at the word Hello, for some reason or another. But i keep going. routines, stories, 5-qns game, failed ESP.. but they just keep feigning interest all the way, just to see where this guy is going with this. well, women like that exist. thank god they're only 10% of the population. these women are losers. and they dont DESERVE the kind of stimulation we're giving them. i feel sorry for them. ha.ha.

So F*ck it. just keep going. keep going after them milfs.

In the words of bret hitman hart:
I always take a lickin, but i keep on ticking.

[ReallyPatheticFatSlob]

"but soon after she starts bashing my gear i was wearing to peacock.. now is this whole situation an older hotter woman protecting herself or do i just need more experience in this area?"

I know a lot of women that do things like this. They will tease you, make fun of your clothes, and bust your balls. Some will try to make you do things like buy them a drink, perform for them, and so forth. It seems pretty common to me when I go out.

It's a woman testing you. She wants to see if she can control you and if you become compliant to her demands or reactant to her rude comments. The community calls them shit tests or congruence tests.

What kind of guy would get upset when she comments,"Is that your grandfather's jacket you're wearing?" Obviously a guy that isn't socially experienced and well-adjusted.

What kind of guy would guzzle down a huge glass of whiskey or tell forty jokes in a row when she demands that he does it? Obviously some guy that wants to win her approval because he is afraid of losing her and disappointing her.

They're called congruence tests because a woman may suspect you of deceiving her with your ostensible alpha traits, so she throws out a minor insult or demand to see if it will bust your reality and bring out "the real you," which is the needy supplicating insecure nice guy that most women suspect a lot of men to be. To women, a lot of men hide those terrible beta characteristics so they can deceive the woman into thinking that they're really a non-needy socially experienced alpha male.

If you pass het tests, the she will feel more attracted to you.

http://wwv.themysterymethod.com/forum/showthread.php?t=36526

This thread should teach you everything you need to know on how to handle these sorts of tests.

[BleakBleak]

Slob,

That is the best explanation of shit tests that i have ever heard. You really cleared alot of things up, especially about the part that show your not afraid to lose her when she tries to bust your reality.

Thanks a mil.

Bleak

[Jay Money]

this has helped a lot thanks guys