Please quick advice =(

[Womanizer]

I have dated a girl during christmus och vi had have sex and even talked about a future together but we want not rush in to anything. After new year I moved back to another city 3 h away weres my univerity are. Shes coming here after 1,5 w apart.
We´we talked every day and she has called more than me. Yesterday I got a small small wibe of something wierd.
Today she answerd my textmessage 5 h later. She hasen´t called and I´m not calling, did it yesterday and texted here first.
She got online on MSN with a new profile picture with her and some dude (could be here brother dont ´know) and she didn.t wrote me nothing though I waz online..

WHAT TO DO, I like this girl and she IS coming on friday. :(

[Sincerelee]

If she is coming, then you do not need to worry. Whoever it is, you are better than the guy in the photo. It probably is a guy from long ago, but she used it because she likes the way she looks in it.

[Womanizer]

Yes she is coming because here ticket is non-returnable but I still get that stomach feeling. I hate it =)

My plan is to not call here untill tomorrow night and try to feel the vibe.. but it´s hard. I Really want to call and ask whats wrong and other AFC stuff =(

tnx by the way

[Sincerelee]

I understand. Always remember...the PUA never fears. That means that the fear you have is coming from AFC past experiences. If you show how you are the greatest guys she will ever meet, she will not think about someone else.

[Womanizer]

I understand. Always remember...the PUA never fears. That means that the fear you have is coming from AFC past experiences. If you show how you are the greatest guys she will ever meet, she will not think about someone else.
Yeah but it harder than it sounds to be that guy all the time though. When feelings comes my mind fucks up and I start to analys everything. Hate it, Girls brings just another plate of shit sometimes =) And when you dont have a girl in your life it sucks because of that =P

[Sincerelee]

I know. Fake the confidence until ou make the confidence. Find a way to relax whenever the fear scomes. I recommend you research NLP, and erase the fearful thoughts, create an achor to recall the confidence when the fear tries to return.

[Womanizer]

I know. Fake the confidence until ou make the confidence. Find a way to relax whenever the fear scomes. I recommend you research NLP, and erase the fearful thoughts, create an achor to recall the confidence when the fear tries to return.
Hmm nice, I´ve heard of it a bit. i guess there some books on it. Any sites u can recomend right now?

[Womanizer]

..and I guess my worries waz wrong. Later in the night I´ve recived a very cute text mess from here and Its all good. I hate when I get this worried for nothing.. GAAH.. :rolleyes:

[Sincerelee]

I am glad, but whether she is in to you or not, it should not affect you. Relax and be the best you that you can be. If she does come, then she gets to enjoy the time around you. If she doesn't, then you'll have another girl to take her place.

[Womanizer]

I´ve started this tread at a time I waz frustrated. (Read top.) The girl I waz talking about waz here this weekend and yesterday we´ve got a bit drunk and she admitted she had gamed me :rolleyes:

Even though I thought I called and texted the last time she thougt that I started to End the texting conversation so with here friends advises she decided to give me a hard time. It work right, otherwise I wouldn´t started this tread. Grils are wishes. :D