Dance Moves

[RedpoleQ]

Check out this video: http://www.clubbintechniques101.com

As you know, it's generally not good to have a girl on the dance floor.

In fact I was deep in Comfort with a girl, up in the club lounge. It was a 2-set and my wing was working the obstacle.

They wanted to go dance, and after a solid 2 hour sarge we figured why not. Get on the dance floor and some guy she knows("a friend") comes in with 2 other guys and I'm blown out instantly.

Next time a girl asks me on the dance floor, I'll warn her about how freaky it's going to be and then I'm going to bust out these moves.

I'll field test it this week.

[RobLaughter]

Is that video not a joke?

[Sexual Chocolate]

Fuck that whack ass wankster video. (You know what I'm sayin' yo?! Huh playa? Word!)

I disagree with avoiding the dance floor and this comes from lots of experience.

The dance floor can be a great place to show a girl what you're working with. (If you know what I mean.) However, you don't want to stalk the dance floor to find a victim that you can go up behind and dry hump her ass. This is chode dance floor behavior and it’s very pervasive these days. (If I see you doing this... I'll bitch slap you myself.)

What’s better is if you ask a girl to dance (whether you’ve met her already or not), take her by the hand, and LEAD her to the dance floor. It’s always best for the dance floor to be packed so the two of you can get very close and personal. There’s no need to bust out the latest version of the runningman. Moving side to side with you head bobbing up and down is sufficient. You can get close, back away, put your hands around her waist, push her away, put your arms on her shoulders… mix it up. Get close, back up, let her come to you, etc. I’ve done this for literally hours, got women so hot because of the sexual nature of the dancing, and then created that connection that lead to a kiss, a phone number or an extraction.

One good thing about the dance floor is, because the music is so loud sometimes, you don’t have to say a damn thing. You can let the non-verbal communication of your body do all the talking for you.

The dance floor can be a great place for the first kiss. When you’re bodies are pressed up close to each other, you’ve got your arms around her and you’re slowly moving together, press your cheek against hers for about 30 seconds. Then slowly brush you lips from her cheek to her lips and see if she backs away or keeps her lips lightly touching yours. Don’t kiss her yet. You can use this to tease her by not going for the kiss for a while. Just look into her eyes. It creates a lot of anticipation and sexual tension, but you have to be congruent with it. When you’re ready, go for the kiss.

Once you have built the attraction through dancing, you have to isolate her to build comfort. If you don’t you risk being another horny, sleazy guy or her getting pulled away by a cockblocker.

I did it this weekend and pulled a girl to her house. I danced, isolated and built comfort, danced (kissed her on the dance floor), isolated and built more comfort, and then extracted.

Let me say it again, you need to build comfort too if you're going to build attraction on the dance floor. Dance floor game is like being cocky & funny. It's a great attraction builder, but it won't necessarily get you laid and/or a girlfriend all by itself.

Shit! I need to do my own fuckin' video.

[Affection]

I think the dance floor is the most fun place to pick up women. It's might not be as effective as dealing with girls away from the floor, but if it works, the social proof effect is amazing and you feel like the fucking man (not to mention you have a hot girl rubbing up against you).

I have a couple of threads on technique over at mASF...

Affection‘s Dance Floor Tactics, Part I (http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=55708&fid=16&BoardID=2) Affection‘s Dance Floor Tactics, Part II (http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/fs?action=9&read=56018&fid=16&BoardID=2)

Later,

~~Affection

[RobLaughter]

Awesome post, Affection. Super-educational for tall, awkward white guys like me :-P

[DoubleBishop]

I saw on elimidate (the one with that PUA), this guy who flipped the girl on teh dance floor... anyone know any techniques for that?

[TheCoolerKing]

Fuck that whack ass wankster video. (You know what I'm sayin' yo?! Huh playa? Word!)

I disagree with avoiding the dance floor and this comes from lots of experience.

The dance floor can be a great place to show a girl what you're working with. (If you know what I mean.) However, you don't want to stalk the dance floor to find a victim that you can go up behind and dry hump her ass. This is chode dance floor behavior and it’s very pervasive these days. (If I see you doing this... I'll bitch slap you myself.)

What’s better is if you ask a girl to dance (whether you’ve met her already or not), take her by the hand, and LEAD her to the dance floor. It’s always best for the dance floor to be packed so the two of you can get very close and personal. There’s no need to bust out the latest version of the runningman. Moving side to side with you head bobbing up and down is sufficient. You can get close, back away, put your hands around her waist, push her away, put your arms on her shoulders… mix it up. Get close, back up, let her come to you, etc. I’ve done this for literally hours, got women so hot because of the sexual nature of the dancing, and then created that connection that lead to a kiss, a phone number or an extraction.

One good thing about the dance floor is, because the music is so loud sometimes, you don’t have to say a damn thing. You can let the non-verbal communication of your body do all the talking for you.

The dance floor can be a great place for the first kiss. When you’re bodies are pressed up close to each other, you’ve got your arms around her and you’re slowly moving together, press your cheek against hers for about 30 seconds. Then slowly brush you lips from her cheek to her lips and see if she backs away or keeps her lips lightly touching yours. Don’t kiss her yet. You can use this to tease her by not going for the kiss for a while. Just look into her eyes. It creates a lot of anticipation and sexual tension, but you have to be congruent with it. When you’re ready, go for the kiss.

Once you have built the attraction through dancing, you have to isolate her to build comfort. If you don’t you risk being another horny, sleazy guy or her getting pulled away by a cockblocker.

I did it this weekend and pulled a girl to her house. I danced, isolated and built comfort, danced (kissed her on the dance floor), isolated and built more comfort, and then extracted.

Let me say it again, you need to build comfort too if you're going to build attraction on the dance floor. Dance floor game is like being cocky & funny. It's a great attraction builder, but it won't necessarily get you laid and/or a girlfriend all by itself.

Shit! I need to do my own fuckin' video.
Ya I heard from a lot of places to stay away from the dance floor.

But that never made sense to me.



But ya, make that video!

I havent done to well myself on the dance floor.
I read to never look around like you said, so I would dance by myself. Just kinda bobing my head.

One chick I danced with danced with me for a little bit before shaking my hand and telling me her name then peacing. That was odd.
I was like Wat?! Huh?!
hahaha
fuckin clubs.


Damn, I gotta get back into doing Ballroom dancing at school.

I saw on elimidate (the one with that PUA), this guy who flipped the girl on teh dance floor... anyone know any techniques for that?
I'm guessing he took lessons?

[TheCoolerKing]

Is that video not a joke?

I just watched it.

I seriously think it is a joke.
I never see anyone doing the "ground Beef".

All of the testomonials is his friends.

All the dance moves in the vid was a serious "wtf".
I laughed at all of them.

But I'm seriously wondering if "Backing it up" will work as an icebreaker...





naaaaaww.



I'm gonna send this link to all my friends as a joke.
rofl

[Superfreak]

If she is hot walk out there on the dance floor and Say '' You know most people try and dance to the beat."

I am not a big fan of the dance floor though you get out there and dance get all sweaty and it is like that comercal, When she sweats is hot, when you sweat its not.

To me its easier to talk away from the dance floor and get an emotional connection going instead of just a physical one.

So you get to dry hump her and I will get the wet version later. LOL

Naw if dancing is something you really enjoy and like to do regardless of pickup go for it and work it into your game.

I do not see how you guys were able to watch that whole video. I had to turn it off after a min or so when he said if she resist non of your spidy powers will help you.

[BonJovi]

I just watched it.

I seriously think it is a joke.
I never see anyone doing the "ground Beef".

All of the testomonials is his friends.

All the dance moves in the vid was a serious "wtf".
I laughed at all of them.

But I'm seriously wondering if "Backing it up" will work as an icebreaker...


naaaaaww.



I'm gonna send this link to all my friends as a joke.
rofl



People really do those moves in dance clubs.

I'm a good dancer but I avoid the dance floor because my spoken words are better at building attraction then my dance moves. But I've used all of those moves with the acception of the "ground beef." and ground humping techniques.

If you are going to dance, I would use those moves. Don't take yourself too seriously. Girls just want to have fun. Use those moves and once she's laughing pull her off the dance floor and run solid game.

[IslandHeat]

I have been lucky in this field of experience. I have always been in the hip hop scene. There's so many dance moves, it never stays the same, always evolving. My cousin and myself took up break dancing and we're pretty good. We have no problem going to the dance floor and picking up girls. We don't even use the moves that we know most of the time. Once you have the confidence that you can dance, you will feel comfortable going out on the dance floor. That's why most men don't go on the dance floor, they're afraid of making themselves look bad. It's actually pretty hard to look bad on the dance floor unless you try and do a back flip on the first time. Just get out there, even if you don't know how to dance. You'll get the rhythm of things and pretty soon you won't care what other people think.

[TheCoolerKing]

People really do those moves in dance clubs.

I'm a good dancer but I avoid the dance floor because my spoken words are better at building attraction then my dance moves. But I've used all of those moves with the acception of the "ground beef." and ground humping techniques.

If you are going to dance, I would use those moves. Don't take yourself too seriously. Girls just want to have fun. Use those moves and once she's laughing pull her off the dance floor and run solid game.

Well I'm just appauled then.
haha

I have been lucky in this field of experience. I have always been in the hip hop scene. There's so many dance moves, it never stays the same, always evolving. My cousin and myself took up break dancing and we're pretty good. We have no problem going to the dance floor and picking up girls. We don't even use the moves that we know most of the time. Once you have the confidence that you can dance, you will feel comfortable going out on the dance floor. That's why most men don't go on the dance floor, they're afraid of making themselves look bad. It's actually pretty hard to look bad on the dance floor unless you try and do a back flip on the first time. Just get out there, even if you don't know how to dance. You'll get the rhythm of things and pretty soon you won't care what other people think.

It was said in the thread that its better to just take the girl by the hand and lead her onto the floor.

Now if it is a club about 80-90% of people will already be out there dancing.

How would you apporche a woman to dance?
Just walk up behind them and hope they wont run away?

[IslandHeat]

Well I'm just appauled then.
haha



It was said in the thread that its better to just take the girl by the hand and lead her onto the floor.

Now if it is a club about 80-90% of people will already be out there dancing.

How would you apporche a woman to dance?
Just walk up behind them and hope they wont run away?


No, don't just walk behind them and grab around their waist. Although, most women will dance with you if you do that. What I do is dance with my friends, back up into the girl I want to dance with and "accidently" bump into them. Turn around, and start dancing with her. Have a little distance between the two of you. If she keeps dancing with you, then you know she at least has a little interest in you. When you know, this is when you motion with both hands for her to come over and get closer to dance with you. When you do not touch and just motion, it gives her a little comfort. Even when she does come over to you, do not touch or try and grind with her. She'll this all herself if she wants you. Usually the first move she makes is turn around and stick her butt in your groin area, or wrap her arms around your neck. Don't dance too long, she'll lose interest. Grab her hand and take her to the bar.

This is the part where I prepare earlier. I always flirt with the bartenders, so later on we can hang out? What does this have to do with the girl you dance with? When I get to know the bartender, I get to have free drinks every time that I go. When you don't buy a drink for her, but still get her a drink from the bartender, it's her subconscious that will like you. It's because it's most unlikely that any other guy has done this. You're on your own after this. Use everything you know after this. I was just showing a way that I have picked up girls on the dance floor. Just something different. Picking up girls without talking.

[Mild_Seven]

I sometimes go out on the dancefloor, honestly because I like dancing and if I hear some music I like I've just gotta move. My rules are that I don't go out there by myself because it just looks like I'm hunting, and when opening sets if I don't get IOIs I back off real fast because having a girl walk away on you in front of all those people is a serious blow to your value.

To me the dancefloor is most useful for parading your pivot or pawns around to build social proof. If I have a safe set, I'll pull the whole set out there and start merging sets. To me that's cool, but dancefloor kissing isn't. Not that I haven't done it, but I try to avoid it (unless it's 5 minutes til closing and some girl is just offering it up to me).