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Stallion7712
12-09-2008, 01:33 AM
I've been seeing this girl and it seems like things are heading in the direction of becoming a legit relationship, which is fine, we have a really good connection and I wouldnt mind being in one with her, but at the same time, its alright if it doesnt happen. I'm not in that deep yet. In the times we've spent getting to know eachother Ive found out that she has quite the premiscuous past, which isnt a deal breaker per se, I just wouldnt want that to carry on into a relationship that we might have. But heres the real problem... It seems like shes always finding little opportunities to talk, or even brag i should say, about her past experiences, I get the impression that she's trying to throw it in my face to try to make me jealous. And its not that I get jealous because Im a pretty secure guy, but it doesnt sit well with me. I just think that its a bit disrespectful, unnessacery, and just not cool haha. Does anyone know the proper way to deal with this kind of a situation? I usually just try to ignore it, play it cool, and then later on try to find my own ways of letting her know that I've had a good deal of experiences to, but my gut feeling tells me that theres gotta be a better way than that. Thanks for any advice.

ScottyT.O.
12-09-2008, 09:04 PM
"I don't want to know about your past"

That's all I had to say with my girlfriend after she asked how many girls I slept with and she was about to tell me how many she had sex with.
If she asks why? respond with:

"It's not attractive to me." or "Thinking about you with other guys turns me off."

Stallion7712
12-10-2008, 12:59 AM
That does seem like a pretty good way to go. Ill try it out.

thach1ef
12-11-2008, 01:26 PM
Could always say "Why are you bragging about being a whore?" hahahaa just kidding, that would be a good way to end the relationship though if you got sick of her!