Sticking point: from C to S

[joe0207]

Same as Zippo in Sticking point: to comfort-building I have a problem with going from this comfort to something else...
Here is my situation.
I met a girl - PU goes great, we meet - I build comfort (trust, cube, lots of fun and laugh, talk about life and experienceses), we meet again - of course there was sex talk and heavy make - out. For the third time we agree to go to movies...In cinema I finger her - driving her home I could´ve fuck her, but I didn´t (DK why - don´t ask). Tommorow she calls me it´s all great. I go on a 2 day trip - come back and she doesn´t return calls or answer them...no prob - I give up...

Here´s the real prob - that shit happened again!
PU went great - we meet - it it great (we just make - out)
On day3 we make-out heavily and I finger her...we don´t have sex
I´m busy for next four days so I can´t see her, but we talk on the phone.
Guess what - she stops returning calls or answering them...
I´m pissed - what am I doing wrong?
Make - out is for comfort, I didn´t f-close, should I say smoething about relationship?
Please guys I need help

[DanteValentine]

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[joe0207]

Geez, thanks!
Is that sooo obvious?
I guess it´s like playing chess - you can´t see it from your own side.
So I should:
- kino escelate even slower than this (this means no fingering, just kissing?)
- meet them more often (how often)
- most important - push/pull (can you give some kind of advice how do I do that?)

I forgot to say - after first girl flaked on me I decidet that I can´t do the same mistake...so with next girl i kissed on day2, but I said ˝no tongue ˝ so we kissed just with lips. I thought that was enough - obviously not...
Thank you again...