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05-30-2007, 10:44 AM
[...this gets a little graphic...]
Met up last night for a day 2 with a girl I number-closed a week or so ago. I'd been hesitant about this for some reason, but armed with some new DHV stories I just decided to go.
She meets me in a nice little bar. She's a 25 year old South Korean TV actress. Hotter than I'd initially remembered!
My game was super-tight. You know why? Because I had NO expectations. At all. I was expecting it to be lame and a complete wash-out, but in the end it worked out pretty nicely. She was a pretty cool girl, and by the end of it, was all over me.
I ran some of my DHV stories - stuff from my life that demonstrates all the attraction switches - preselection, leader of men, etc etc.
I spoke passionately on every subject that we talked about.
I came up with a neg that actually made me stop and laugh:
Her: ‘I used to be a really heavy smoker’.
Me: ‘What, you used to be fat?’
She said she had a guy stalking her. I told her my own personal story about a stalker and told her that she should report him to the police. I also made a note in my head that this gave me the perfect reason to walk her back to hers.
I bounced her on to another bar. I stayed confident and relaxed at the start, then got a little more flirty and let her win me over. Started boosting the kino levels now, after spending so long previously on CF and push-pull teasing. Ran a perfect ‘Ring Finger Routine’; I even told her my new comfort story that practically had her crying.
I tested my A3 game, adding in that extra 'eliciting values qualification' question of 'What do you do?' 'bla'...'and why is it that you do that? What drives you to do that? Qualifying in this way had a powerful effect on her.
While she went to the bathroom, I opened another girl at the bar. She was so cute, and we had a great interaction, but I had to cut it short when my date returned. Either way, it showed confidence and attraction.
So I start walking her back. And I decide its time for the Rockstar Sex Moves - you know, the throwing her against the wall, hands on her throat, kissing her neck. That zone between fear, pleasure and pain...its an intoxicating mix.
Get back to hers and pretty quickly we are fucking. It's good. She's groaning like crazy. I switch to taking her from behind and push her flat onto her stomach. As I go to put my dick back in (pardon my French), a lightbulb flashed above my head:
'Anal sex - why not?'
So I start fingering her pussy again, then spread her juices up over her ass. I move my tongue in and lick it all up. I'm getting a positive reaction. I slip one finger in.
She tenses slightly.
'Relax', I say. That's all I say. She obeys the command.
Another finger goes in, she's groaning and bucking back against my hand.
Again, I tell her to relax.
I move my fingers out, and rub my penis around her ass. I push it against her, and she lets me in.
It was great, really fucking great. It's not the first time I've had anal but the first time I've had it after a first date - and first f-close.
So why do I think it happened?
-I had put off this date for so long, she wanted to jump me before I'd got there
-Perfect body language
-DHV stories that communicated a high sexuality but also a deep trust. Women are as curious about new sexual experiences and taboos as guys are. But they need the conditions to be right, in order to fulfill those. One of these key conditions is trust. She has to know you aren't going to go and tell all her friends.
-Sexual behaviour
-Dominant sexual attitude from myself and wild, animalistic sex beforehand,
-Truly not giving a fuck...I was not nervous if she said I couldn't go there. What was she going to do? Even if she told me to leave, it would not have effected my sense of self-worth.
For a woman, a taboo such as anal sex has to feel right both physically, and emotionally. My high physical sexuality laid the foundations for the physical progression towards anal sex to feel correct for her, and my DHV stories, strong qualification and good comfort building satisfied her emotional criteria.
I want to test these out more, I would like to see if this is a result that is possible to get with regularity.
Afterwards, her housemates and I sat around, drank a few beers and chatted the night away watching home films. It was a great night, they were cool people.:)
PS. How's this for irony - her friend, who my wingman had sarged a few weeks back when we met these girls, played a role in the Hollywood film 'School of Seduction.' I found this out last night and just had to text my wing...gotta love that irony...
Met up last night for a day 2 with a girl I number-closed a week or so ago. I'd been hesitant about this for some reason, but armed with some new DHV stories I just decided to go.
She meets me in a nice little bar. She's a 25 year old South Korean TV actress. Hotter than I'd initially remembered!
My game was super-tight. You know why? Because I had NO expectations. At all. I was expecting it to be lame and a complete wash-out, but in the end it worked out pretty nicely. She was a pretty cool girl, and by the end of it, was all over me.
I ran some of my DHV stories - stuff from my life that demonstrates all the attraction switches - preselection, leader of men, etc etc.
I spoke passionately on every subject that we talked about.
I came up with a neg that actually made me stop and laugh:
Her: ‘I used to be a really heavy smoker’.
Me: ‘What, you used to be fat?’
She said she had a guy stalking her. I told her my own personal story about a stalker and told her that she should report him to the police. I also made a note in my head that this gave me the perfect reason to walk her back to hers.
I bounced her on to another bar. I stayed confident and relaxed at the start, then got a little more flirty and let her win me over. Started boosting the kino levels now, after spending so long previously on CF and push-pull teasing. Ran a perfect ‘Ring Finger Routine’; I even told her my new comfort story that practically had her crying.
I tested my A3 game, adding in that extra 'eliciting values qualification' question of 'What do you do?' 'bla'...'and why is it that you do that? What drives you to do that? Qualifying in this way had a powerful effect on her.
While she went to the bathroom, I opened another girl at the bar. She was so cute, and we had a great interaction, but I had to cut it short when my date returned. Either way, it showed confidence and attraction.
So I start walking her back. And I decide its time for the Rockstar Sex Moves - you know, the throwing her against the wall, hands on her throat, kissing her neck. That zone between fear, pleasure and pain...its an intoxicating mix.
Get back to hers and pretty quickly we are fucking. It's good. She's groaning like crazy. I switch to taking her from behind and push her flat onto her stomach. As I go to put my dick back in (pardon my French), a lightbulb flashed above my head:
'Anal sex - why not?'
So I start fingering her pussy again, then spread her juices up over her ass. I move my tongue in and lick it all up. I'm getting a positive reaction. I slip one finger in.
She tenses slightly.
'Relax', I say. That's all I say. She obeys the command.
Another finger goes in, she's groaning and bucking back against my hand.
Again, I tell her to relax.
I move my fingers out, and rub my penis around her ass. I push it against her, and she lets me in.
It was great, really fucking great. It's not the first time I've had anal but the first time I've had it after a first date - and first f-close.
So why do I think it happened?
-I had put off this date for so long, she wanted to jump me before I'd got there
-Perfect body language
-DHV stories that communicated a high sexuality but also a deep trust. Women are as curious about new sexual experiences and taboos as guys are. But they need the conditions to be right, in order to fulfill those. One of these key conditions is trust. She has to know you aren't going to go and tell all her friends.
-Sexual behaviour
-Dominant sexual attitude from myself and wild, animalistic sex beforehand,
-Truly not giving a fuck...I was not nervous if she said I couldn't go there. What was she going to do? Even if she told me to leave, it would not have effected my sense of self-worth.
For a woman, a taboo such as anal sex has to feel right both physically, and emotionally. My high physical sexuality laid the foundations for the physical progression towards anal sex to feel correct for her, and my DHV stories, strong qualification and good comfort building satisfied her emotional criteria.
I want to test these out more, I would like to see if this is a result that is possible to get with regularity.
Afterwards, her housemates and I sat around, drank a few beers and chatted the night away watching home films. It was a great night, they were cool people.:)
PS. How's this for irony - her friend, who my wingman had sarged a few weeks back when we met these girls, played a role in the Hollywood film 'School of Seduction.' I found this out last night and just had to text my wing...gotta love that irony...