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PUA casanova
11-15-2008, 12:10 AM
i jus got into the pick up knowledge/ and community. im kinda tired of my past lifestyle, always chasing girls, being the nice guys and watchin the girl i liked go for the jerk. then i started to think man fuk it, in college ima raise my game. i learned some stuff in a site called becomeaplayer.com and i told myself this is it. ima new man. but sadly i was still the same afc. i couldnt figure it out. wat was i doing wrong. i noticed that i still had aproach anxiety. i accidentally ran into the mm, and i learned sooo much my game (after become a player.com) was all wacked out. i have vast knowledge of the mm or venusian arts as it is now called. but one problem i still dont get out. i noe wat i have to do and say but i dont go clubbin. idk y. i guess its cause i dont have peackocin clothes, but i wanna sarge so bad. so as of today ima make a plan that i have to go out sargin. even if its by myslef. and i would really appreciate if any 1 reading this would supprt me. cause u guys were afc's once before. so until i become a master vunsian artist, i take my first step into this new world. :D

casanova

-seduction is inevitable, rejection is not.

Feature
11-15-2008, 06:38 PM
i am in the same situation basically, i need to really get out there and sarge or at least do something social.

Bad Apple
11-16-2008, 08:30 AM
I've been in a similar position as you guys up until recently. Its best to keep things simple when you're starting out so you don't get brain overload, for this I'd recommend getting Neil Strauss's 'rules of the game' (includes the 30-day challenge)
I'm going through it right now and its good in that it sets realistic, manageable challenges for you to improve your game bit by bit whilst gettin you out of the house. Try and stick to doing the daily missions but don't panic if you miss a day or fall behind, just make sure that you complete it.

The mistake I made when I first discovered the game was that I crammed a load of technical game theory in and only practiced in the field once every 1-2 weeks, when it should be the other way around. Its like weight-lifting, you wouldn't skip straight to the heaviest weights and expect to succeed, just concentrate on lifting smaller weights until you are comfortable then add more on gradually.