Hot Waitress/Number

[Perception]

Whats up everyone...I joined here a year ago and within a few weeks of using the MM (a very basic, unrefined form) I landed a smoking hot girlfriend. We just mutually broke up and I am right back on all of this. Just pulled out the mystery method book a week ago. In two weeks I've had two dates and three girls give me their number. Not bad, it's the furthest I've ever got.

I was out to eat at a Friday's and the waitress was amazingly hot. My goal of the night was to number close so thats what I set my sights on. I payed her no attention at first with very passive/non-interested body language and just normally ordered the food while having a good time with my buddy. When she came back I ran an opener (So, did you know theirs rabbits outside in the marshes?) and she bit it. She talked about how she had just moved from Texas and what not etc. She went on a little too long and I said "geesh, can we just have our food" but not rudely or in a cutting off manner, the whole time looking over my shoulder.

She paced a few times and my wing said she was smiling like crazy at me. Nice. She brings us our food and I run the Neil Strauss 5 Question game in which I of course win and she is eating this up. Wing again notices she is smiling and she brings me like 3 diet cokes in a row. Each time it's just a thank you with a little teasing on both our behalfs.

She comes over to ask for dessert and I say well why don't you join us. She blushes and says no. She brings the check and I say their is one last game which is the number game. I give her a business card of mine with ten underscores on the back of it. I say write down digits and she is giggling like a school girl. She brings the card back with her number on it. We leave.

I call the girl two days later (Im sure she was working...it was a Saturday night). She doesn't call back the next day.

Do you send a text message, call again, or leave as a man of value and do nothing. I don't see why she would flake but theirs many reasons (gaps in my game, just getting back into it) where she would as well.

Not disappointed but rather curious

BTW this is the first time I've gotten a HB9 number and have successfully caused a postitive reaction. This is why this one is so "special" to me as a PUA.

Thanks everyone
Perception

[Hollywood]

Let it sit for a few days and try calling again, with a plan for a day 2. Text messaging is non-Alpha, I've had girls tell me they wouldn't have gone out with me if I had texted.

Flakes happen its a part of all of this, girls get worked up in the moment, then they reflect on how or why they felt so compelled to give you their number (which may be something they don't normally do) then freak out and they won't call back because they are confused.

Don't take it personally, it's just how it happens sometimes.

Two weeks ago I had a girl ask me for MY number after running game on her for like an hour, so I had her put her number in my phone and I called her and left her a crazy message (right then and there) and she loved it. Then I called 2 days later and got the voicemail, no call back. Moved on. Maybe I'll call her in like a month if I'm bored, but other than that, just gotta recoup and set out for a new number.

[Randel Flagg]

Sounds like you opened and got into A2 Awesome Dude! Pobably should have run a couple of DHV imbedded storys and a little kino like thumb wrestling. I had a similar episode with a waitress in Iowa in a biker bar. I had the same outcome. I got her number and tried to call her the next day I ended up going back that night and running more material. Including a DHV stories. Subsequentially, I hooked her. I would recomend going back and running some more material and get into comfort so she trusts u. You got the time bridge (phone number) and you have already got attraction., so You shouldnt have any problem hooking her!

Good luck brother!!!!

[hybridd]

What's the Neil Strauss 5 question game?

[Randel Flagg]

You're at a party and get introduced to a friend of a friend. She seems like your type of girl and you want to make a good impression. You start up a conversation; ask about her job, how she knows your friend and what she's got planned for the weekend. You make some more small talk but soon run out of things to talk about.

Has this ever happened to you? Ever felt like you are just running through the routine 'getting to know you' questions? One thing that a lot of guys don't realize is just how often women are approached by guys asking the exact same questions. It's no surprise why girls are so unresponsive to the small talk conversations; they are sick of answering the same questions! If you want to be noticed, you need to change your approach.

Being able to hold a conversation is not enough. You need to keep her interested, make her laugh and enjoy talking to you. There are so many things you can do to liven up your conversations. One good way is to play some games with her to bring some fun into your conversations. They can easily be incorporated into any conversation making them very useful if you ever run out of things to talk about or have trouble keeping her interested. Here's an example, it's called 5 questions.

B: "Hey I have a cool game to play."

G: "Okay."

B: "The game is called 5 questions. Here's how it works. I will ask you 5 questions. If you can answer all 5 question incorrectly then you win, otherwise I win."

G: "Incorrectly? Don't you mean correctly?"

B: "Nah, I mean incorrectly. For example, if I ask you 'what planet are we on?', you would have to reply 'Mars' or some other planet other than Earth. If you answer all 5 of my questions incorrectly then you win."

G: "Ahhh okay I get it. This will be easy haha."

B: "Okay... First question. What colour dress are you wearing?"

G: "Blue." (she is wearing a black dress)

B: "Oooo okay second question. Hmmm... what time is it?"

G: "Midday." (the time is 9 o'clock at night)

B: "Okay smart pants. Third question...What song is playing?"

G: "I kissed a girl!" (A song by The Killers is playing).

B: "That's nice..." (Now do something that will make it look like you are momentarily distracted. If you are sitting down and holding your phone you may 'accidentally' drop it or you may notice your shoelace is loose and bend down to re-tie it. As you bend down to pick up the phone you just dropped casually ask her...) "What question are we up to again?" (Your face should look like you are trying to remember how many questions you've done so far).

G: "Four"

B: "Haha got ya. I win."

G: "Ohhh nooo I didn't know that was one of the questions!"

If you seem genuinely distracted when you drop your phone or whatever distraction you choose to use, nine times out of ten she will be caught off guard and not realize that asking her what question you're up to is actually a question.

But what if she doesn't fall for it and answers it incorrectly I hear you ask. "Question number 1 billion!" for example. Well don't sweat, you still have your 5th question to ask remember!

B: "What question are we up to again?"

G: "Question number 1 billion!"

B: "Ohhh you've played this game before haven't you?!!!" (When saying this you must look annoyed as if she has cheated. You may even give her a slight push as if to say she has cheated.)

G: "Nahhhh I haven't I promise!!"

B: "Haha, got ya! You answered the 5th question correctly so I win!"

This is a really fun game to play and it always works if you can pull it off naturally. To make it sound more natural, personalize the first 3 questions so you ask situation specific questions. You can even make it a little more interesting by putting a bet on the fact that you will win. For example, "okay if I win you have to get on that podium and dance to the next song!". Let her decide what happens if she wins.

Games are a great way to liven up your conversations! Try them out and remember the key is to have fun with the girl.

If you want to learn some more games to play or tips for picking up women, check out Pyro's blog at http://www.yousarge.com And don't forget to check out Pyro's latest blog about the game Enjoy!

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[Perception]

This game works amazing! The first girl I did it on was this waitress. Since then I've done it to two other girls and they both love the fact when they think "they have you" and then you get them on the fifth question.

I should of DHVed a little bit more. The business card thing is a DHV which I thought would get me pretty far. Just means it's time to tighten up the game and convey more Higher Value.

[AgentS]

Whats up everyone...I joined here a year ago and within a few weeks of using the MM (a very basic, unrefined form) I landed a smoking hot girlfriend. We just mutually broke up and I am right back on all of this. Just pulled out the mystery method book a week ago. In two weeks I've had two dates and three girls give me their number. Not bad, it's the furthest I've ever got.

I was out to eat at a Friday's and the waitress was amazingly hot. My goal of the night was to number close so thats what I set my sights on. I payed her no attention at first with very passive/non-interested body language and just normally ordered the food while having a good time with my buddy. When she came back I ran an opener (So, did you know theirs rabbits outside in the marshes?) and she bit it. She talked about how she had just moved from Texas and what not etc. She went on a little too long and I said "geesh, can we just have our food" but not rudely or in a cutting off manner, the whole time looking over my shoulder.

She paced a few times and my wing said she was smiling like crazy at me. Nice. She brings us our food and I run the Neil Strauss 5 Question game in which I of course win and she is eating this up. Wing again notices she is smiling and she brings me like 3 diet cokes in a row. Each time it's just a thank you with a little teasing on both our behalfs.

She comes over to ask for dessert and I say well why don't you join us. She blushes and says no. She brings the check and I say their is one last game which is the number game. I give her a business card of mine with ten underscores on the back of it. I say write down digits and she is giggling like a school girl. She brings the card back with her number on it. We leave.

I call the girl two days later (Im sure she was working...it was a Saturday night). She doesn't call back the next day.

Do you send a text message, call again, or leave as a man of value and do nothing. I don't see why she would flake but theirs many reasons (gaps in my game, just getting back into it) where she would as well.

Not disappointed but rather curious

BTW this is the first time I've gotten a HB9 number and have successfully caused a postitive reaction. This is why this one is so "special" to me as a PUA.

Thanks everyone
Perception

did you give her your phone rules before you left with her number, that helps me out alot when I do fast closes.

[Aviator]

"Rabbits in marsh opener"? Please tell :D How did you close with the numbers game? Great field report!

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