Sticking point: to comfort-building

[Zippo]

Hello friends from the Venusian Arts, in this post a SP I face in my game. I hope u can help me:)

Here's the point: I am sarging a HB9 from my college and everything goes pretty well in the PU. Opened and attracted here with standard MM and DYD tactics (negs, role playing, C&F frames, push-pulls, false disqualifiers, etc.)

I want to move on, and not stay in the attraction stage, but don't know when moving to c1. What I mean is: when to go from A3 to C1 (from attraction to comfort building). When do you know it's the right time to drop the whole C&F thing and move to C1. Any suggestions?

Some good C1 ideas are also welcome:)

[Abower The Don]

It's hard, I won't lie to you. Basically, you have to convey your identity through storytelling, and make her relate to you and your experiences.

[Tali]

You must kino early on, perferably A2..A3. I found that a good way to transition is to first: Isolate the target, second: tell her a story that she can relate to (here's your chance to shine with massive DHV's), and thrid: use touch her...have her give you her hand and read her palm...run a pattern on her (either October Man or Style's Evolution Phase Shift routine).

If she is congruent and willing to go the step further you are in C1...rememebr that whole bait, hook, real, release, step in A3...it is vital before moving on into C1. Another sidenote: don't be afriad to make-out or kiss early on...it is cool to this but in moderation, "ok...whoa...let's join your friends"...

hit me up if you have questions on the patterns...

Tali :cool:

[-Silver-]

I want to move on, and not stay in the attraction stage, but don't know when moving to c1. What I mean is: when to go from A3 to C1 (from attraction to comfort building). When do you know it's the right time to drop the whole C&F thing and move to C1.

When you get your 3 IOIs. If you've got them, great! She's attracted to you! Now you can build comfort, make her trust you, create a strong rapport. Cube her, palm read her like Tali suggested, and try to match her voice pacing. If you are both talking at a similar speed and level, then it will subconsciously create a strong bonding feeling (rapport). Good luck buddy!

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