First Post, Match.com advice

[BogusOtis]

Ok, I got an email from this chick on match.com. after winking back and forth with each other.

She's cute, looks like a 7 or 8. She is separated and going through a custody battle, so she says in her email to me.
Here is the correspondence so far:

Subject: OK...I'll make the first move.

Hey fun, good guy! I live on the southside. Which bar are we talking about?
B~

(Side Note Guys, I own a bar called Cheerleaders Sports Bar & Grill, and you guessed it, all my gals wear Cheerleading outfits)
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My First Response:

Subject: RE: OK...I'll make the first move.

Cool :), nice to hear from you.
Now why on earth would I tell you the name of my bar yet? You could be a stalker girl, ya know :)
hahahha. You'd be a cute one though. lol.
I gotta get off here in a sec, but here's a few questions for you. Did you grow up on the southside? Separated for how long?
Cheers,
J
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Her Response to Me:
Subject: Stalker girl

J~

Funny.... but good point. I'm new to this. I was smart enough though not to give you my name yet! :)
I did grow up on the southside. Graduated from Franklin Central. I've been separated since Sept. It's taking so long b/c fighting for custody of kids and house. Talk to you soon.

B~
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OK everyone for this being my first post ever on here, I thought this would make it interesting. I have not responded yet to her last email. I was wanting to see what you guys thought I should say. I think I know, but I want some MPUA's input. If any MPUA's offering input has match.com and would like to see her profile, email me privately.
Cheers,
BogusOtis :p

[-Silver-]

This is where Heartwork's Myspace method comes into play, as always. He has some great lines that are guaranteed to convey an interesting personality, and allow you to determine from her responses whether she has an interesting personality herself. Not sure if it can be found in the 'articles' section on venusianarts.com, but you can definitley find it on mysterymethod.com.

Personally I don't have much experience with these dating things or myspace/bebo programs, I prefer meeting girls in the real world. But if you read up on 'Heartwork's Myspace Method', you will instantly be a hundred times better at gaming over the internet :P Make sure you create an interesting thread in your reply, and if she still doesn't provide any questions of her own in her replies, call her on it. Here's the classic question Heartwork coined - 'So if we were going on a roadtrip, where would we go and why?' He explains how to use her answer to stay in control of the frame, create attraction, and to get her to qualify herself to you. Hope it goes well!

-Silver-

[Affection]

You've got it fine so far... keep going. :)

~~Affection

[BogusOtis]

Ok, Update on my match.com net dating, just to show you how this is ending up.

Subject: Re Stalker Girl
Ok, I'm guessing B is for Beatrice? How close am I?
Franklin Central, oh no, I don't know if I can talk to you anymore now...That's where all the mean girls came from on the southside isn't it? U better be nice :)
I've been there and done that with the custody/divorce thing, trust me it gets better it just takes time. So, what did you want to be when you were 7 yrs old?
Cheers,
J
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Her Response:
Subject: Re Re Stalker Girl

Do I look like a Beatrice? It's Brandi. Mean, huh? I can be. Through this divorce, I have found mean thoughts go through my head frequently! haha Just kiddin. F.C. girls are intelligent sweet girls. Where did you graduate from? Thanks fro the advice....everyone says the "takes time" thing. I'm ready for it to be over........he's not! 7 yrs old.......I can't remember. i'll have to get back to you.

B~
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My next Response
Subject: Re Re Re Stalker Girl

LOL, OMG, that was too funny. Do I look like a Beatrice? hahahah Iwas only messin with ya Bea...hahaha
Brandi is a cool name :)
I graduated from Perry Meridian. The divorce thing really does get better after awhile. I still refer to my X as Lucifer though.
How was your day today?
Cheers,
J
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Her Resonse
Subject: Re Re Re Re Stalker Girl

My day was good, thanks. And yours? Lucifer, huh? I'll have to remember that. Do you get to work all weekend? Any boating plans? I'll be exhausted when the weekend is over. My girlfriend is coming up from Nashville. She just moved there. She misses me... Gotta get some sleep...talk to you soon.

Brandi
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Ok, guys....This is where it has stopped. I havn't written her back yet. I think I'm getting close to the end of the 7 hours rule too. Any suggestions?
I think I got her attention and the IOI's are there, but I need to escalate this beyond emailing, and have a face to face soon. I've been having fun with this..
Cheers,

[Alboi]

it's been 3 years...

so did you marry her?

[SilentBeat]

Get her number and call her. Tell her something like "I've booked us a table at ___ (with the time and date" and then just before ending the call tell her "I just know we are going to be GREAT friends.".

If you drag this conversation out any longer via text it might backfire.