Using Game with Dating Service Websites?

[NiteTime78]

Just curious if any of you guys ever used the game on chicks you've met through a dating service?

I'm seriously thinking of trying one, because I'm not meeting enough of the type of women I like, I've had a recent string of failures with girls I've attracted and got a few meetings with, and every other girl I've met recently either have a boyfriend or kids.

I'm looking for a girlfriend, so at least i'd dealing with a percentage of girls who are open to meeting people. Seems like a good way to practice if the nightclub scene isn't an option.

David D. suggests AOL, but I don't have an account. Any other good places?

[specialK]

this is something I wanna learn about, too. ATM it is literally impossible to go out enough to really try stuff out and get smooth. Online may be good practice during what would otherwise just be down time.

[NiteTime78]

To clarify, I don't want to replace meeting women offline, I just want to supplement it. E-Harmony and Match.com seem to be for people looking for a relationship. Has anyone tried either of these?

It should provide alot of "date" practice. I get can get them attracted and get a couple of dates, but my escalation and calibration in C1/C2 needs alot work at this point.

[NiteTime78]

Thanks Rewok,

I found a good topic here,Specialk: http://www.venusianarts.com/forum/showthread.php?t=771

I'm still interested to hear if anyone has tried Eharmony or match.com? Seems like the women on those sites may be more relationship focused, but they cost money...

I've heard alot about myspace & craigslist. Never heard of Facebook. I'm willing to try them to see what happens.

[HUGE AL]

Huge Al's Take: Don't do "online game" (I hate that term) until you've done your 1000 approaches and come to the realization that you don't need to do it. 1) the chicks are usually full of issues and psycho 2) you're skipping over the natural progession of human interaction 3) the chicks are psycho

[CarltonBanks]

Huge Al's Take: Don't do "online game" (I hate that term) until you've done your 1000 approaches and come to the realization that you don't need to do it. 1) the chicks are usually full of issues and psycho 2) you're skipping over the natural progession of human interaction 3) the chicks are psycho

ESPECIALLY with sites like eHarmony & Match.com--not only are they psycho, but they're psycho and on the prowl for a husband. They want chemistry, you want physics. If you're going to game anyone online do myspace, facebook, or sex sites like adultfriendfinder.

[Cedar]

3) the chicks are psycho


Did we mention they're psycho?

[NiteTime78]

Umm, yeah. I think the word "psycho" has been mentioned a few times...

That's not good. :)

I'll save my money and try the sites you guys suggested. Well, I don't have enough (none at all) social proof pics for Myspace yet. I got female friends ,so I can work on something to put up. Thanks

[specialK]

In my current sitch it would take years to get thru 1000 approaches. Luckily, it's not a perma-sitch and will eventually change. But for now, I'm stuck and it is rare that I am out anywhere in any condition to play, so I do what I can and meanwhile Myspace could be a decent side bet. I would not consider eharm, etc., after experiences of my afc friends! not to mention warnings from you guys haha!

[HUGE AL]

Did we mention they're psycho?

Yo Man...nice of you to reply to my post...now feel free to pick up the phone and return the voicemails... :)

I'll save my money and try the sites you guys suggested. Well, I don't have enough (none at all) social proof pics for Myspace yet. I got female friends ,so I can work on something to put up. Thanks

Have you done steps one (1000 approaches) and two (realized that you don't need this crap [b/c that's what it is]) yet?

[NiteTime78]

No, I haven't done 1000 aproaches yet.

I've been doing alot of approaches focusing on areas that have the type of targets I'm interested in. Mainly my college, and near by areas after classes, like bookstores, shops and malls near by. I've met some interesting, smart girls that share similar interests, just not enough of them so far. I've made mistakes in C1/C2 with the girls I've got meeting with.

I really want to avoid the drunk party girl bar/club scene at all costs. I live downtown in a big college city, so that's not hard to find. I know there's guys in the community that don't operate in nightclubs and still have lots of success. I want to be one of those guys.

My goal is to find an amazing smart, artsy, talented girlfriend, so I'm not ruling anything out completely. I just have my preferences about places I'd like to game, but ultimately I'll do whatever it takes to achieve my goal.

[HUGE AL]

I've made mistakes in C1/C2 with the girls I've got meeting with.

Then you still need to fix that aspect...keep approaching and practicing.

My goal is to find an amazing smart, artsy, talented girlfriend, so I'm not ruling anything out completely. I just have my preferences about places I'd like to game, but ultimately I'll do whatever it takes to achieve my goal.

This is a great attitude. There's not much that replaces going out IN FIELD (read: NOT online) and working through your sticking points.

And if you want to become "one of those guys" the best advice I can give you is take a bootcamp. It will supercharge your Game and take you to the levels you aspire to...

[NiteTime78]

I'd love to attend a bootcamp. I wanted to get training form Jdog, since he's in my area. I'm paying my own way through college right now , so things are really tight and I can't afford it at the moment.

My surface sticking points are in C1/C2, but honestly I still got some inner game issues to work through. I believe in myself and I believe in the techniques/strategies I've learned, but I still have doubts sometimes that' I'll ever be able to put it all together.

The comfort phase just seems very overwhelming to me now, but I could barely even approach a girl a month ago and now that's easy, so I'll work through it.

[Maverick]

I'm writing a comprehensive e-book on it now. It should be out in a month. I'll post when it's finished.
- Maverick