Aus's next top model

[stevo32]

hey guys, i am very new to this forum, very much a AFC. there is this girl who was on australia's next top model that i have been introduced to (through a friend) this last weekend. any advice as to best ways to help pick up would be very appreciated. know a bit, but am really raw.

[sting]

Hi Steveo,

welcome to the forum.

Its pratically impossible for anyone to tell anyone else how to run a particular sarge, and guarentee success.
the PU deal is a long-term improvement of social skills. and part of that is not taking any single sarge too seriously.

In other words - don't expect too much from this one, or anyone for that matter.

having said that - i'd say
- have fun, make jokes, and don't cling to her. Leave her every now and then, or turn away and talk to other people, especially on a high point (assuming you guys will get back together along with other people, not one to one?)

- don't go on too about her being on the show. if she brings it up, thats an IOI. give her props over it, but don't stick on the subject. Shes impressed you - but not turned you into an awestruck fan - thats what your going for.

- I think you should just genuinely befriend her, as in put the SARGING GOAL out of your mind. it'll help you relax, be yourself... and if that goes well, you switch back to courtship mode.

BIGGEST THING - imagine that the two of you would make a SOLID PAIR. you sound like your not feeling that - and that's what'll subcommunicate itself, and possibly be a problem.

again - don't expect too much, but if you make it through A2 and A3, just give it a go! what've you got to lose? - the C's usually take care of themself in social circle situations - small talk will do just fine.

good luck, bro,
Sting

[CrimsonKing]

If you are REALLY new, then go buy The Mystery Method hardcover. Read it and internalize it as fast as possible, and use what you learn from that to pick her up.

If you know that stuff already, then proceed as normal. She should see (without you telling her specifically) that it doesn't matter to you that she was on TV. Also, I would watch out for negs that involve her looks, it might strike a VERY negatve cord.

Remember that you are the prize. Just because she was on TV doesn't make her better than you. In fact, it's probably hard for her to find someone because some guys would be intimidated by the fact that she was on that show.

Good luck!

[relics]

I've met a couple models in the past months and a neg that'd really come handy is a

HB: I'm a model
Relics:...what, like a hand model?

If she IS a model make sure you use the "You know beauty very common, you're either born with it, or you buy it...." line, because for her everything is pretty much looks oriented and if she's a cool person she'll know that beauty fades and she shouldn't bank on modeling for the rest of her life. To have a plan.... hell you can use that I geusse.

[stevo32]

thanks alot, great advice, appreciate it.

[CaptainAmazing]

hey stevo one thing NEVER pay attention to the fact she was a model

[dman]

GFTOG=go fuck ten other girls

seriously now, practise makes perfect!