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09-12-2008, 02:37 PM
Hey everyone,
Went to get coffee this morning and looked over and saw a 7 in her late thirties working on a crossword puzzle. I was kind of indifferent, but she had on really short pants, a good tan, and I noticed she was CHEATING on her crossword puzzle.
So, I go over and call her on it, and I am like, "Dude, give me that puzzle. You can't cheat on it."
So I say I gotta go in a few minutes, and help her out with the puzzle, and the whole time she is deniying that looking at the crossword puzzle answers is cheating. So then we start talking about lying, and I go into "who Lies More, men or women."
So she goes into this big story about how women are so much better liars, because women just speak really abstractly so they can't get caught.
Then I try to DHV a little bit using the Four Statements (three of them true, one false, I identify the false one), which I nailed.
Anyway, the whole time she is smiling and laughing and leaning in toward me, and our legs rub against the table and she doesn't pull away, and little bits of KINO seem to go well. I mean, we are talking like old friends.
Mean time I keep looking up at the clock like I gotta go. And she says she has to go to, but she doesn't make a single move to get up and leave.
I ask her if she likes to go dancing, and she said that she doesn't because she hurt her back. So I say to her, "you should give me your phone number anyway."
So she says, "I don't let people into my life because I might be under constant video surveillance by the insurance company. They don't want to pay my disability. It is all sub-rosa."
So I say, "Cool your scamming the insurance company. High Five." and she gives me a high five.
So I said, I gotta go. Give me your email address.
So instead of saying, "Oh, I don't have a pen, or I don't have any paper, or I don't give my email address to strangers," she goes ahead and writes it down. In fact, she DOUBLE CHECKS to make sure the one she gave me is right, since she says that she just got a new email address.
Ok, so I send her an email a few hours later just asking her how far she got on the crossword puzzle, and she responded right away with this email (I left the spelling and grammar mistakes intact):
I actually have to that I was offended by your statement about scamming the insurance company. If with the impression you are a jerk. Told you I don’t believe in lying. I was a bit annoyed at being interrupted in a place I go to for a relaxed moment out of my day –it’s about the only social interaction I have in my life.
I don’t lie. And you I am aware of the saying “thou thinks thou dost protest too much” and I say – a person with integrity always stands up for the truth, even if it is unkind.
My not wanting to go out with others is a personal choice. As of late I am often in great pain and need to take care of myself. Right now my world is all about me and my health. I don’t have the patience to allow new people into my life.
This all may sound a bit harsh. However, I trust no one whom I don’t already know. I make no apologies for myself or my beliefs.
As for magic spells, I believe God has blessed many with the gift of prophecy and insight. Beyond that – I am indifferent.
Kudos to you for having the confidence to talk to people you don’t know.
Enjoy your day.
Anyway, just wondering what you guys think. I really don't care about her that much (although she is fairly sexy). But if you think it is a shit test, just wondering what you think I should do. I am more interested in PRACTICING for dealing with shit tests than in actually hooking up with this woman.
I just find it funny that there were a lot of IOIs and I didn't pick up a single IOD from her. And I thought it was funny she said, " I was a bit annoyed at being interrupted in a place I go to for a relaxed moment out of my day –it’s about the only social interaction I have in my life.." When her social interaction (before I started talking to her) consisted of doing a crossword puzzle by herself and being oblivious to everyone around.
So, what's your vote; Shit Test or Psycho?
Planet
Went to get coffee this morning and looked over and saw a 7 in her late thirties working on a crossword puzzle. I was kind of indifferent, but she had on really short pants, a good tan, and I noticed she was CHEATING on her crossword puzzle.
So, I go over and call her on it, and I am like, "Dude, give me that puzzle. You can't cheat on it."
So I say I gotta go in a few minutes, and help her out with the puzzle, and the whole time she is deniying that looking at the crossword puzzle answers is cheating. So then we start talking about lying, and I go into "who Lies More, men or women."
So she goes into this big story about how women are so much better liars, because women just speak really abstractly so they can't get caught.
Then I try to DHV a little bit using the Four Statements (three of them true, one false, I identify the false one), which I nailed.
Anyway, the whole time she is smiling and laughing and leaning in toward me, and our legs rub against the table and she doesn't pull away, and little bits of KINO seem to go well. I mean, we are talking like old friends.
Mean time I keep looking up at the clock like I gotta go. And she says she has to go to, but she doesn't make a single move to get up and leave.
I ask her if she likes to go dancing, and she said that she doesn't because she hurt her back. So I say to her, "you should give me your phone number anyway."
So she says, "I don't let people into my life because I might be under constant video surveillance by the insurance company. They don't want to pay my disability. It is all sub-rosa."
So I say, "Cool your scamming the insurance company. High Five." and she gives me a high five.
So I said, I gotta go. Give me your email address.
So instead of saying, "Oh, I don't have a pen, or I don't have any paper, or I don't give my email address to strangers," she goes ahead and writes it down. In fact, she DOUBLE CHECKS to make sure the one she gave me is right, since she says that she just got a new email address.
Ok, so I send her an email a few hours later just asking her how far she got on the crossword puzzle, and she responded right away with this email (I left the spelling and grammar mistakes intact):
I actually have to that I was offended by your statement about scamming the insurance company. If with the impression you are a jerk. Told you I don’t believe in lying. I was a bit annoyed at being interrupted in a place I go to for a relaxed moment out of my day –it’s about the only social interaction I have in my life.
I don’t lie. And you I am aware of the saying “thou thinks thou dost protest too much” and I say – a person with integrity always stands up for the truth, even if it is unkind.
My not wanting to go out with others is a personal choice. As of late I am often in great pain and need to take care of myself. Right now my world is all about me and my health. I don’t have the patience to allow new people into my life.
This all may sound a bit harsh. However, I trust no one whom I don’t already know. I make no apologies for myself or my beliefs.
As for magic spells, I believe God has blessed many with the gift of prophecy and insight. Beyond that – I am indifferent.
Kudos to you for having the confidence to talk to people you don’t know.
Enjoy your day.
Anyway, just wondering what you guys think. I really don't care about her that much (although she is fairly sexy). But if you think it is a shit test, just wondering what you think I should do. I am more interested in PRACTICING for dealing with shit tests than in actually hooking up with this woman.
I just find it funny that there were a lot of IOIs and I didn't pick up a single IOD from her. And I thought it was funny she said, " I was a bit annoyed at being interrupted in a place I go to for a relaxed moment out of my day –it’s about the only social interaction I have in my life.." When her social interaction (before I started talking to her) consisted of doing a crossword puzzle by herself and being oblivious to everyone around.
So, what's your vote; Shit Test or Psycho?
Planet