Need Openers, negs, and stories please.

[Dmac]

Hey my fellow PUA's i noticed that im running out of material so i wanna know
more openers, negs, and dhv stories, I need yur guy's help. Thanks!:D

[-TruTh-]

I would say think back in time when you remember small funny shit. Then turn those into DHVs. Negs are basically spur of the moment. And Openers are easy "Hey I'm looking to get a man purse help me out ladies" -- TruTh

[checkers]

well, if you use the SEARCH key (next to new posts and quick links) on the user CP bar, I'm sure you can find lots of new openers and routines. Now, for my advice....


I suggest you make your own stories and openers up man. To be honest if you keep using routines you're going to be coming out like a social robot. What you can do, is take stories you already know and use the templates (opinion opener, direct-indirect, and direct) and create your own material that will be congruent with who you are.

When I first started game and got into this stuff (last December) I was using lines RIGHT out of the book, and it worked for a while but once you start becoming the "new you" then these lines will be totally incongruent with who you are.

As for DHV stories, these are easy to come up with. JDogs principle line when talking about DHV stories is that you shouldn't pretend to be interesting, you should BE interesting!

Instead of talking about the time you went rock climbing with ur friend and saved his life, go rock climbing once and tell them about the experience of doing that. Go to a rifle range and check out some new guns (GREAT day 2 spot btw), or go skydiving. All of these are probably easily accessable if you live near a major city, so if you're looking for some DHV stories there you go. Make you own.



Hopefully this helps.

[Russianstar]

If you read MM and revelation and stuff, it basically teaches u have to make ur own openers.. just htink of what an opener is, it is an engaging, open ended question that initiates the conversation. Its like a mini gambit/routine.. if u want, u can stack routines, stack openers but i usually let an opener hang as i build multiple threads..

You said negs: a neg is a false disqualifier.. there are differnt types of negs, shot gun negs, sniper negs. BUt if u wanna make ur own.. its like.. whenur with ur best guy friend and u tease him, u r not trying to be a dick, but he did something dumb and ur teasing him for it, or for example, my best frined likes girly music.. and id tease him for that.. its like that.

DHV stories.. you know the DHV attraction swithces, Leader of men, protector of loved ones, willingnes to emote, willingnes ot walk away, preselected by women. A DHV stoy is jsut any old story that has all or some of these thing in whihc we call DHV spikes.. so if i say, "i went to the mall to pick up something for my friend.." i could tweak it saying, "i went to the mall to pick something up for my friend, who i knew for such a long time, liek we are close, one time... (break into an interesting stoy) ALSO, WITH OPENERS, NEGS, DHV's. ALL THAT STUFF, Watch ur tonality. u should be pausing between words..