View Full Version : Re-establishing Kino and Attraction
So I finally decided it was time to settle down and....... I get fucked over.Alright so hes the story, met a girl on myspace, turns out she knows one of my best friends, we hang out, make out, i finger her and then I decide that shes cool enough for me to settle down with. Several days go by I get about as close to sex as you can get (I got my shit in, but her parents were about to come home) we hang out one more time. (so far a week has elapsed, im taking it slow because shes a virgin, but its pretty much a sure thing) Next thing you know shit comes up and I cant see her for the next two weeks. After the two weeks are up we start hanging out again, this time I dont get any tongue and the magic is kinda gone, it feels like we're disconnected. Any tips for kino escalating faster and re-establishing the attraction, as Ive already used mos t of the good shit getting her the first time.
Metal_Slug
05-26-2007, 03:11 PM
... who said you cant use it the second time?
shit man if we all had to keep inventing new kinos everytime we interacted with a girl none of us would get laid.
just bust and tease on her... be playfull.... do some kino.. then do a TAKE AWAY... once she is turned 'on'... go in for the kill.
now obviously dont use the same thing ALL the time... but nothing wrong with doing things that shes enjoyed before.
do you eat a piece of chocolate u like only once in ur life time? naw man... if u love a kit kat bars but eat them only once week... im sure ull enjoy it for the rest of your life.
get what im saying?
10Pin
05-26-2007, 03:43 PM
I had a really good kit kat this evening. One of those new Peanut Butter ones, real good.
Anyway, Thor, remember that if you have done it once so you can do it again. Think about where you flipped the attraction/seduction switches the last time and reapply those principles.
Dont get wierd - she'll pick up on that.
If she's a virgin, then she's likely to be young I'm guessing. Or a nun. Hopefully its the former. You can initiate kino in a playful manner here - start a pillow fight for instance, and show a little dominance in it. It's not easy to explain in text, but hopefully you get the right idea.
Then use one step forwards two steps back/push pull in your sexual escalations to have her begging for you.
This has worked before, and so it will work again. I believe in you.
John the Baptist
06-20-2007, 09:43 AM
ATTRACT
COMFORT
SEDUCE
I've been in a LTR for some time, and my primary interest in PUA is first of all, as upping my game in LTR. A lot of guys think they're going to get into a ltr and its an automatic meal ticket. It might be, but its a meal ticket for microwaved meatloaf, served by the lady from your high school cafeteria. You want to keep it hot? YOU have to be in charge, and be constantly creating the sexual energy, tension, and reassurances to get her to rip your clothes off. (I of course also recommend ripping her clothes off, just check state law wherever you live in these sexually witchy times lol).
Secondly, giving me the total confidence in the back of my mind that I can attract and enjoy females ANYWHERE I go (which, as we all should know by now, makes you even HOTTER to women), and finally, as a core foundation to a type of modern man's movement, the type Style often dropped hints about before he discovered he could make big bank and get awesome press off of being the public King of the PUA's, without having to dig any deeper.
Bottom line, you got the tip in, and she's gone off for a couple of weeks. If she's a virgin, you have no control over her social circles, and from parents to friends and anyone in-between, don't you think she's had multiple boardroom meetings over you and your knightly quest to de-frock the maiden?
Virgins are tough to begin with. Start your whole A/C/S routine again. Make HER work for YOU.
I also suggest, instead of trying to pop her first, try giving her a good orgasm with your tongue. This worked for me in the past, and it puts you in a memorable position in her life, as possibly the first guy to give her a good climax, and the first one she slept with.
Go get 'em tiger!
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