Child Bearing Years

[wilynwild]

Women are only attractive during their child bearing years and are most attractive during their healthiest child bearing years. That's why being attracted to females that are too young or too old is unnatural; i.e. taboo. That's also why older girls spend so much time and money on potions and surgery trying to look young.

So, as I get on in years, and not being rich by western standards, finding a high quality hot LTR (girlfriend) in her child bearing years becomes more and more competitive. I'm interested in what most of you call "cougars" on these forums. I find that they can have much stronger bitch-shields than younger girls. Even if younger girls aren't interested, they tend to be less rude than cougars, even though you'd think the cougars would be happier to be getting attention. I guess years of being hit on, relationships gone bad, etc., makes them jaded.

I'm in good shape and my life is in good order. Any special tips on cougar game for a 40 something relative newbie to game like me?

[coyote]

Hey Wilynwild
Chick crack, short answer. They are always into self improvement and perfect relationships. Read the "Secret", the current fave, if they can find a guy to meet requirements outlined in that book they will do anything. Good luck.

Coyote

[Planet]

Hey there, coyote:

If you could elaborate more for the good of the group, that would be great.

Planet

[Gatling]

wilynwild:

In my experience, one of the prime demographics for older PUA's are women in their early 30's.

I could go on for hours on my theories on this subject but the gist is that many 20 something girls rigorously adhere to a "list" of qualities in a man during their 20's. The Prince Charming list, if you will.

As a consequence, many spend their 20's having nothing but random hookups while they wait for the perfect candidate. They may have year or two relationships with possible prince charmings, but, to no avail.

At about 30, reality slaps them in the face, their biological clock starts pounding, and they become easy prey for older, charming, intelligent, guys.

In short, the type of woman you are seeking should be right in your wheelhouse.

Give us some more info. This is an interesting topic.

[coyote]

Hey sure

The demographic is as follows Past say 41 or 42 the % of hb 8,9 and 10 drops signifigantly. The ones that remain are gentically superior,sometimes emotionaly squared away and the smart ones are financially set. how many Michelle pfeiffers do you know? Not many, but they are out there and they are a lot of fun. The game works on them to. So adjust your game to them. They haven't got where they are by being lazy and you can't either. I'm just saying when you reach the comfort steps with them. If you are familar with the current self help relationship book, that they have just adopted as the path to zin romance, things will go smoother. If you can quote they're book to get what you want, your driving not them.
coyote