eros3108
05-02-2007, 10:21 PM
1.) Something interesting happened to me at work the other day. 2 guys who were buying clothing began joking around with me. The joking slowly became bating or negging. Now, as an employee, my negs were often so simplistic and fun that you would never know they were negs. At the end of the transaction, he picks up another employee's card and asks if I am her? Obviously implying in a real sudle way that I am a girl while still having guy fun. I did not really like this as I was getting serious AMOG vibes from the guy earlier. He wreaked of Alpha-male sports jock. I replied with, No, while my name is _________ my friends often call me Vicki! I tried to turn his neg into a joke and it worked and his friend laughed hard. However, after this comment, the AMOG began perfusely appologising insincerely but in such a fun way that you could take it as he still wanted to be buds. Either way, for the first time I had noticed serious social cues within a male group. Has this insincere appology laughing ever happen to anyone else? This is hard concept to explain but it is definitely a neg.
2.) Also, I tried to convince a girl the other day to haul up pictures of friends and I partying it up at a recent bar. Her friend never did while she was on the computer and the more I asked, I felt like I was somehow bragging and lower my HV. However, I thought...Mystery did show home videos of himself and his bros having fun? What are people's suggestions on this? Thanks.
-Eros
2.) Also, I tried to convince a girl the other day to haul up pictures of friends and I partying it up at a recent bar. Her friend never did while she was on the computer and the more I asked, I felt like I was somehow bragging and lower my HV. However, I thought...Mystery did show home videos of himself and his bros having fun? What are people's suggestions on this? Thanks.
-Eros