A specified form of AA fear of being overheard

[Midcen43]

today I went the movies/mall with 3 of my friends. Watched the movie Wanted (awesome btw) but I thought for the first time hey I wanna game at barnes and nobles. It went terrible (i guess I learned bcs its all a lesson). I dont have AA so much with real chill daygame bcs I'll feel that I'm just killing time/having fun. Tonight I thought it was going to be easy and work. Now that I look back i can see the mistakes and the mistakes wouldn't have been there if I had approached straight up directly but I couldn't do that because I had AA specifically for mixed sets and I wouldve approached direct if the girl was alone and I couldn't be heard by onlookers I have no problems walking to a girl and doing some direct but im scared that others would overhear stuff and barnes and noble is a quiet place. So I have the fear of being overheard (only on some occasions otherwise I dont give a fuck) but I also have a fear of mixed sets direct or 2 girls or more direct(sort of) and indirect because these situations sound cheesy and weird. Is there anything besides going out more that can help me with this? Thanks!

[azazels_wolf]

You're in a bookstore and you want a way to approach mixed or multiple sets that doesn't sound cheesy and weird? Open with books! Carry a book, point to a book, ask for an opinion or information about books. Whatever you like. The possibilities are almost endless because you're surrounded with interesting material to talk about. If you want to get sexual right away, find a book on sex or erotica and show it to them and ask something.

[Midcen43]

lol thats wat i thought when i went in i thought it would be best place but i NEVER used a book from the store now that i think of it haha rofl i used completely unrelated openers....but wont the girls still think its weird that i want their opinion?

OMG wait i just thought of something...
me: "hey i need to get a book for a really good friend (or should i try girlfriend or ex-gf) and she really likes horro/romance *i show two random stephen king books or girly romance novels* which do you think?

her: bla bla bla bla
me:bla bla
etc.
THX!! azazels_wolf today i guess i had PUA routine block lol but i wonder if i should use girlfriend, ex-gf, or female friend ...hmmm

[BangBang]

Keep in mind as well that FEAR of anything usually indicates a need to take a serious look at your Inner Game.

If you're afraid, you're THINKING too much.

If you're afraid, you're insecure that people will think poorly of you if they overhear you.

If you're afraid, you should work on not giving a shit what ANYONE else thinks about you, what you say, or what you do.