Phone Game

[Poodie]

I found that after i number close, and after call the girl a day or two or three later, i often just draw a blank and the conversation just winds down into nothing. im not talking about setting up 2nd meetings, as thats not a really big sticking point, but just regular chat to help build confort time, and get her used to having my company on a regular basis. any suggestions on conversation topics, games, or routines (or NLP techniques) to improve my phone game?

[-Silver-]

I've never seen phone game as a problem, but a lot of people seem to believe it's a completely different ball-game. But take a look at it:

-Body language isn't an issue

-You can easily stop the conversation, whenever you want (No, not by hanging up!)

-You can have the conversation in an environment familiar to you, like on your uber comfy king-size bed

-The only factor that you really need to focus on is voice tone and pacing

Here's some pointers:

Be sure to use a time constraint at the start of the conversation so she doesn't worry about how long you'll be talking for; Pace your speach so you are talking at the same speed she is, and at the same volume. This increases rapport very quickly on the phone! Try to end the conversation on a high point, such as when you have her laughing. The feeling she has when the conversation ends is the feeling that she will most likely associate with you.

As far as conversation topics go, you can either bring up one of the topics you were talking about last time you spoke, especially she found it interesting or enjoyable. Or just ask her questions about herself, what she does etc. Everyone's favourite topic is themselves remember!

If you want a game to try playing with her, then check out Style's 5 Question Game if you haven't already. You can find him demonstrating it on youtube, you'll love it!

Good luck buddy!

-Silver-

[junkyfungus]

Phone game can be a serious messy area for a lot of VA if you don't know what you are doing. It seems as if it's easy, but usually inhibitions are lost on the phone/SMS and therefore you can easily lead the girl out of the comfort zone into seduction before it's time and loose everything.

Seduction should always be done in the area of the sex location. Even if it is time and you enter S1 while on the phone, you will still make her feel uncomfortable.

My suggestion is to buy Hypnotica's Phone Game. Hands down, it's the greatest on phone game you can buy. Hypnotica's stuff is quality and this one tops the charts.

Sheesh for as much as I preach about Hypnoticas stuff I should be on commision!:D

[Poodie]

My suggestion is to buy Hypnotica's Phone Game. Hands down, it's the greatest on phone game you can buy. Hypnotica's stuff is quality and this one tops the charts!:D

where can i find this?

[junkyfungus]

http://www.deepphoneseduction.com/?bid=2&aid=CD2&opt=

[CarltonBanks]

Phone game trips me up sometimes because its easy to over-analyze while you sit there with phone-in-hand thinking about what to talk about. I've found a few things that help--

-Keep the convo under 10 min, especially if you're calling back for the first time. Try calling 10 min before your favorite tv show--it cuts you off and gave you something to talk abuot. And there's nothing wrong with taking less than that.

-Just call to chat. Have a conversation to put her in a bright mood, and be gone. Dont feel like you need to setup a date. For example, I got a number last Saturday, called her yesterday before Sopranos, and at the end mentioned I'll talk to her later this week.

-Bring up themes from the last time you talked. Recurring jokes & flirtations, things in common, people you know, etc.

-Think about what you talk about with your friends the day after a night out. "Wow we kicked 2 kegs" "Did you see [whoever]? What a hoe!" "OMG that person was such a dumbass!" "What happened after I left?" etc

By the way, hopefully you were done with attraction and well into comfort by now--so the two of you are comfortable talking about job/school, outlook on life, some personal issues and deep stuff like that.

If I get voicemail I dont usually leave a msg, but I'd like to hear peoples' opinions on that. My philosophy is that if you leave a voicemail then you leave the ball in her court--and she may not call back or may be too anxious to do so.