The deep spot - multiple orgasms at will

[Argo navis]

Okkkaaay :) Next topic : the magic of multiple orgasms. I blurted out some notes a while back about it, and seem to be the first to bring it up here, so it's time to fuel this with some... "horse power" ;)

Linkie : http://www.venusianarts.com/forum/showthread.php?t=10101&highlight=deep+spot

David Shade covers this in details, but I discovered the deep spot years before pickup. I refined it's usage as I progressed through the community.

Ever seen your girl FALL ASLEEP on her 20th orgasm in a row? Ever seen a girl orgasm while you are OUT and just cheering her up? Ever believed it was possible? Well, I can't blame you, girls don't know either until they feel it.

Here is my fail proof recipe : this one is material from my lab, feel free to use and reuse again and again and then one time. Has been flawless for me.

1) WHAT'S THE DEEP SPOT?

At the back of a girl's vagina, to the top, there is a bump, very perceptible and very sensitive. Slightly to the left of this bump is.. the deep spot. Oh the day I had a girl go "Aaaaaaawwwww... what did you just do? This is different...".

To find it, a good way is to :
1) Get her to be very excited and wet.
2) Place two fingers in, slowly, toy around, and gently reach the back of her vagina until you can touch the tip of the bump.
3) Massage the bump in soft rotations while drifting to the left.
4) Until the ground starts shaking - you definitely will notice if you've followed the steps properly.

It's an extremely sensitive area of her vagina that makes for the wildest imaginable sexual techniques. It might have been a target for proper delivery of spermatozoids or something, anyow...

David Shade advocates teasing her deep spot until she is about to orgasm, and ONLY THEN penetrating her.

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My recipe is : set the MOOD (ambient - alpha vibe to the max - deep rapport - HSE on both sides) - and get to pick some technique that you know will get her extremely hot and possibly may have her orgasm before intercourse.

For me, this is oral - mouth wide oral, not lapping oral. I happen to take a girl's whole sex in my mouth and bite it (and do everything possible and pleasurable) : a MASSIVE turn on for girls too (- the bite, massive power demonstration, caveman animal style - just bite softly if you pick this one method for foreplay). Oral for girls is great the same way it is for men : when you enjoy it thoroughly. But your goal here is just to have her orgasm a couple of times during foreplay, so be patient.


...Oral or favourite foreplay + simple deep spot massage for some time = she'll go nuts.

Now, don't listen to David shade who'd tell you to get in at this point. Instead, have her orgasm three, four times already this way. It's not too hard because after the first one it will only be a couple of minutes to the second.

As you do this, she'll beg for you to come in - REFUSE. Several times until she can't take it anymore : it's turning her on MORE. You're exciting her, incredibly, through foreplay - and all she can think about is your penor, but as you deny her penetration, her desire, of course, for the object of her dreams... INCREASES. Sky rockets in the context.

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After this, at some point (and the best is by suprise), get in and do your usual "job".

Instead of one orgasm only (several MUST have happened by that point, ~4 if you can), you'll get her to continue escalation on her current, extremely high state. Every couple of minutes she'll have one, and past the tenth or so, you can happilly get out - many girls don't stop cumming when they start a series.

Just be prepared for the claw marks on your back, don't flinch, you WILL lose skin with this - but you'll be feeling something else, more prominently, also.

When girls start such a series they just never seem to stop until they don't have a drop of energy left : they'll keep cumming until they CANNOT anymore. Gotta love that.

[baggins321]

I've tried this a couple times and wasn't really able to find her deep spot. I did the "come hither" motion, but I think my flaw was in not applying enough pressure. My left hand should have been pressing down on her pelvic bone and my right should have been doing the come hither very hard, almost lifting her butt in the air. I was afraid of hurting her, but after further reading, that area can take alot of aggressive behavior. Women give birth for crying out loud lol.

So do you find that it takes alot of pressure when you rub on her deep spot to get her to orgasm? And when she orgasms, its a full body orgasm right? Almost like a seizure? From what I understand that's supposed to happen, and also most women squirt from a deep spot orgasm.

You said the deep spot was noticeable? What does it feel like exactly? How should we feel it out to know we have the right spot?

[Argo navis]

The g spot is NOT the deep spot. The deep spot is way cooler methinks. And no, you don't have to thrust - yes you can press to an extent, but you don't need to go too far. The key is to have her extremely hot before you start playing her deep spot. ¨

I recommend you google David Shade / deep spot for diagrams, I think he has one where he shows exactly where the g spot and the deep spot are located.

It's not the same thing - g spot, you can skip, it's nothing much really.

And yeah, orgasms are full body orgasms to the girl, of a rare strength - I kid you not about the losing skin bit, I try to make it a point to get a girl to lose control of herself totally in bed and I've had my share of scars and claw marks this way.

I'd say there are two keys : turning her on a lot before the action, AND understanding how mental the sexual act is to women.

There's something related to ASD about that... Basically, it's the "princess/slut" complexion - women, to be sexual, need to free themselves from the social pressure we know as ASD.

So they expect some "bestiality" (not agressive, dominant) during sex : they expect being given a direction, be it with words, voice, and touch of course - as a very natural extension of PU techniques - think about it : if your vibe alone can favour attraction, what happens when you cast that vibe while doing the right things to her body?

Arguably, the mind of a woman may be the only thing more powerful that her deep spot when it comes to sex and pleasure - you can actually instruct a woman to orgasm if you do it properly.

But, well, this is yet another David Shade chapter :) For now : google David Shade Deep Spot (and add "diagram" if you don't find it).

[baggins321]

I confused g spot with deep spot, I meant the deep spot sorry. Hard to keep track of these spots like A spot, G spot, Deep spot, etc. You said not much pressure was needed? And that it feels like a bump? I don't remember being able to find any bump when I tried. How far in did you have to insert your fingers? And you were just rubbing, not thrusting or pushing her pelvis vertically upwards?

Also, how does this feel differently to the girl? I've read that it makes them feel like they have to urinate. So you have to tell them to just let go and they won't urinate, but rather ejaculate, when they have their deep spot orgasm. Is this what you experienced with your girl?

Also, very important. How much time did it take rubbing her deep spot before she had an orgasm? Were you going at a slow, medium or fast pace when rubbing it?

[Argo navis]

:) Two good questions, and a last one a bit too mechanical.

The bump is ALL THEY WAY backwards, the deepest you can reach. No thrusting, just rubbing. It really is very noticeable, so don't look into pressing,
look into getting her totally wet and getting deep inside.

To her, it is different because the physical sensations, indeed, seem to be more widely spread. I have had some report it's unlike "classic" vagina or clitoris stimulation OR like both at once : honestly, I know as much as that about the exact feeling since I didn't feel it myself. I just know they go nuts.

And yes, it's an excellent way to turn them into squirters - it's right that they feel they need to pee, they hardly admit to it but if YOU reassure them it is natural and work the comfort during sex, they will eventually get to it - you have to make them very proud of it afterwards, you have to cheer them up a lot.

Which brings me to the next question : it is not about TIME. It is about arousal, and arousal, by women, is a deeply MENTAL thing, so it's about the MOOD.

That is why Shade is a masterful LOVER, not FUCKER. There are "arousal switches" that work exactly like "attraction switches" (some are the same), and he hits them flawlessly before, during, and after bedtime.

Oh... and guess what I just found? http://www.fastseduction.com/shade/2001-09-19a.shtml

[riles]

Just a fyi sometime you can barely reach it. I have noticed for some girls it's not much of a reach others i can barely touch at all. Of course long fingers always help!

[Argo navis]

I am lucky like that, have big hands, never had that problem, but the good news is... You can also stimulate it with your pen0r during the act ;)

Same thing, just push Willy slightly to the left when you push.

[matrixx]

http://www.davidshade.com/support/deepspotGspot.gif


David Shade is awesome. Love his work on female sexuality.

[BLANK]

Okkkaaay :) Every couple of minutes she'll have one, and past the tenth or so, you can happilly get out - many girls don't stop cumming when they start a series.

When girls start such a series they just never seem to stop until they don't have a drop of energy left : they'll keep cumming until they CANNOT anymore. Gotta love that.

I'm slightly confused, after you've given a girl multiple orgasms several times in a row she starts "a series" and cums faster with less time between orgasms as you keep pleasuring her?

does it always take about 10, and are you just continuing the stimulation as she orgasms?

Are the "series" orgasms any different?

[Argo navis]

I'm slightly confused, after you've given a girl multiple orgasms several times in a row she starts "a series" and cums faster with less time between orgasms as you keep pleasuring her?


Yes.


does it always take about 10, and are you just continuing the stimulation as she orgasms?

Not sure about point 1 : about question 2... at some point she cannot stand direct sexual stimulation any longer. She'll put her feet through your face out of reflexes, because there is a limit (before collapse).

At that point, I generally have retired already and am CHEERING HER UP : telling her to "cum for her Argo". Until she calms down, at which point she generally falls asleep.


Are the "series" orgasms any different?


They rise slowly until a peak (when she tells you to stop and you have to take a step back and cheer her up).

[Ricky D]

I tested it yeah, but i didnt have/took the time to do proper forplay, i kinda had like a quicky and decided i would try it, she wasnt arroused up enough to realy go for it i think , but i noticed her realy liking it...and then my hand got tired...i stopped for a bit...went on doing it again...and my fucking hand got tired again...i couldnt move it anymore!
But yeah, you can realy feel the deepspot very easely, i dont have huge hands but i felt a slightly harder "thingy" way in the back and massaged it just like i would normaly do on her G-Spot, then when her body starts to move around you can feel the "spot" moving aswell, i think it might be muscle tisue or something, i felt it contract back and forth when she moved her ass up nd down.
Interesting stuff !

Cant wait to try again and see what happens.

[Argo navis]

To really get her to *that* state of arousal, I highly recommend you take in account the mental side of things (tease/push/pull/etc) that I am explaining in another thread next to this.

And one thing dude... you don't get TIRED during sex. This is friggin' Sparta, I may be an alien life form of sorts, but one of the most sexually active girls I have ever known told me this, I have neve forgotten, and I have to thank her for the tip.

Lookup David Shade for more and better material about the deep spot and sexuality, guy's a genius.

[asab204]

when is this thread you speak of going to be posted? I do want to read it so very much.

[Amber Nectar]

So true. My bf would use the tease method and hit my deep spot, going back and forth teasing me with his cock and using push/pull methods as well. Good stuff, I'm sure he read those books......every guy should read them. He told me to "cum", and I did, on command.......every time. I had series that fell shortly after the first....so wonderful.....I'm insatiable though...it's never enough.

When I climax sometimes the worst part about it....is I get a pain in the arch of my right foot, it hurts so fucking bad that it takes away from the pleasure of the orgasm that is occurring or about to occur. During this, he became aware that he needs to bend my foot backwards in the other direction so I can concentrate on cumming.

I've also had spasms in my right leg, hurts like a motherfucker, that's when I need my leg manipulated in order for it to stop.....

That just means he's doing something right, and my body is contracting....I just despise the spasms....I could do without those……

[Argo navis]

I am glad a strongly sexual girl like you can appreciate these "tips". This foot pain is something I know by the way, it's related to tiredness and stress (right foot I guess), I feel something close to it myself at times.

Know how to soothe it too, and think this really is about your nervous state and stress, managing that, and using NLP to enhance your body response to this "glitch".

Aw God, I have - so - much more to share about these various topics these days and SO little time, this is why I started a new "summary and improvements" thread about sex.

So don't mind a few days delay, and rest assured I'll get back to helping your feet feel comfortable. Oh, and did you know orgasm reflexes can be "implanted" in many ways and areas like breasts? No command needed then, only an exciting man sucking on your nipples to rock your socks off time and again.

Etc.

Mind.

Is magic.

Cheers,
Argo

[azazels_wolf]

Also, your hands and feet have nerve endings and pressure points that directly correspond to every single area and organ of your body. So stress or illness in some other area of your body can manifest in the hands and feet, since they are like a map of your body.

Amber:

Since you have a tendency to experience pain and tension, have your partner give you a massage of your hands and feet before sex. Speaking of the energy orgasm stuff from the other thread, you can trigger those through hand-to-hand contact as well, so if he can gently massage your palms and the soles of your feet while giving you those sensations of energetic release and healing, then you will probably be much more open and relaxed during sex afterwards. Don't be surprised if the pain wells up very intensely while he's doing this - just let it be and allow him to work through it with you while you tell him what's happening.

[Splendo]

Great thread. I believe I have induced this type of orgasm, but never knew that there was a term for this. I've been able to induce 4 at a time pretty consistantly until now...

I'll play some doctor and report back with my findings.