I aint sayin shes a Golddigger.

[TheCoolerKing]

So I've known this cute asian chick for awhile now.

Recently she has started too smoke a little green.
And last time I seen her it was her trying to buy some off me.

And I got the impression that she only texted or call me to get some more.
But she always talked to me frist, see what I was up to.

This convo I had with her on AIM was going really good but then she feel back into her old habits.

Teh Cooler King: good story
happysad4: being sarcastic?
Teh Cooler King: never
happysad4: eh fuck it i don't care if u think so
Teh Cooler King: waaat?
Teh Cooler King: here look
Teh Cooler King: GOOD STORY!!1!!!11
Teh Cooler King: see?
happysad4: haha i don't care!
Teh Cooler King: k
Teh Cooler King: ...A-
happysad4: hahaha
happysad4: do u still smoke
Teh Cooler King: eh, its complicated
Teh Cooler King: I prefer not to but theres nothin to do here in roc so I always end up smoking
Teh Cooler King: so I guess I have to say yes
Teh Cooler King: lol
happysad4: lol yea
Teh Cooler King: I only smoked a few times at school this time
Teh Cooler King: I was proud of that
happysad4: nice job
Teh Cooler King: a-?
happysad4: hahahaha
happysad4: yes. lol
Teh Cooler King: sweety
Teh Cooler King: sweet*
happysad4: i don't smoke that much at school either
Teh Cooler King: oh you rather be the crazy drunk than the zoned out pothead
Teh Cooler King: nice, nice
happysad4: nahh
happysad4: some nights i don't wanna smoke
happysad4: plus pot at pennstate is sometimes laced with heroin
Teh Cooler King: shit
Teh Cooler King: I dont think I ever got laced green
happysad4: yea so i don't really smoke with ppl i don't kno
happysad4: my friend gets weed from vermont so its alright
Teh Cooler King: kool
happysad4: do u have good stuff?
happysad4: i smoked on new years but it was kinda shitty
Teh Cooler King: eh
happysad4: oh well
happysad4: im gg night
Teh Cooler King: peace out
Teh Cooler King: have fun in AA
Teh Cooler King: lol
happysad4: your sooooooooooooo funny
Teh Cooler King: I know
happysad4: lame :-P
happysad4 signed off at 1:46:49 AM.


Could anything be done with this?
Or should I move on?

[TripleSeven]

Might be worth seeing how far she'll go before she makes some hard demand for the green. You shouldn't have expend your stock for her to put out though, that indeed would make her quite the weed whore.

[smoothlatinkid]

If you're getting the feeling she's only hitting you up for weed, you're probably right.

There's nothing wrong with doing something for a girl....if she's doing something for you. And the chat she's having with you is like the required social chat you have with your drug dealer before you get to what you're REALLY there for---THE DRUGS.

From reading the text transcript, you should be busting on her a little more (gently and humorously, though!)

My advice? Get her out to do something that has NOTHING TO DO WITH WEED.

After you kiss close her, THEN you can smoke out with her/hook her up. Or use her as a pivot.

But don't set yourself up as the guy DOING SHIT for her while she's not reciprocal.

[TheCoolerKing]

Right.

That is, in fact, only half the convo.

It started off boring at first.
But then I was like you know what...time to spice this up.

I then negged her with good results.

I asked her over summer to goto the beach and chill.
She actually called me to see what was going on with that.
But nothing came of it.
And even thought of going to a lazer light show.

And every other time I see her she bought green from me.

Any suggestions on how I could ask her to do something without weed (I seriously want to stop smoking haha)?

[smoothlatinkid]

Drinks. Museum. CD buying. Shopping at IKEA. Anything where you're not really spending money. When you invite her, phrase it classic MM---tell you're you are doing XXX and invite her to tag along.

Good luck.

[Tha Gangsta]

You want to quit smoking. She keeps hittin' you up for smoke and/or buying you smoke. Correct?

The best way to quit is to be around non-smokers. Green, cigarettes, cigars, hash... whatever it is that one smokes.

I'm not sayin' cut her off completely, but let her know that you want to quit and if she is gonna be hangin' around you, to not bring it up or smoke in front of you. If she starts testing you... you know what to do.

OG

[SONICBOObs]

Right.

That is, in fact, only half the convo.

It started off boring at first.
But then I was like you know what...time to spice this up.

I then negged her with good results.

I asked her over summer to goto the beach and chill.
She actually called me to see what was going on with that.
But nothing came of it.
And even thought of going to a lazer light show.

And every other time I see her she bought green from me.

Any suggestions on how I could ask her to do something without weed (I seriously want to stop smoking haha)?

Rofl is this girl korean? I seriously think I might know this girl

It's hard not to get them to do the green. It's one of those logical things. It is possible but very hard to influence her away from it. Just needs good influence. It certainly won't help if you oblige or start doing more weed yourself.

[Showcase]

If I was in the same situation I would just tell her that I didn't sell it anymore, if she keeps contacting you/hanging out than you know she likes you for you....and if she doesn't contact you after that, its not the kinda girl I would wnat to hang out with in the first place

[junkyfungus]

This reminds me about the story of the striper who wouldn't hang with the guy unless he bought dinner (I forget who it was). First time he didn't, he didn't get laid, the next time he was like sure, bought her dinner and got laid.

What's the problem?

[SONICBOObs]

Context. He was saying that not every girl is like. She was the exception, not the rule.

It was Tyler Durden.