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MGriff
04-14-2008, 09:41 PM
This morning I walk into class late and sit next to what looked like an HB7 at the time (she was in running gear + no makeup, later turns out to be more like HB 8). Say hi to a female friend of mine in front of me and then turn to HB, look at her for a few seconds in a c/f way and then open with a simple 'hey you look kind of interesting.'

Negged her a bit based on her appearance (Me: "ew you're kind of sweaty" Her: "I don't think it's that bad. Can you tell?")

I qualified her a bit by asking what the most adventurous thing she'd done in the past week was, stuff like that.

Made sure not to introduce myself, but when my friend walked in 10 minutes later I introduced the two of them with "Mike, meet my new friend, New friend, this is Mike." She introduced herself as Mona and then turned to me and asked me what my name actually was (IOI).

(I like to not introduce myself and let them ask me my name, because I know I've gotten to some kind of hook point then. The problem is that sometimes girls never end up asking so I usually do it right before I have to leave, or even if they do ask, my name is 'Mattan' and no one seems to remember how to pronounce it for long. Any suggestions?)

At some point during class I tell her I'm going to a cafe to work on an essay later. She mentions that she likes the cafe and goes there all the time. Maybe 10 minutes later I tell her she should come by while I'm there and hand her my phone. #-close!

I don't think I left on the most solid note. For the future I'd like to develop some kind of anchor so that I can continue where I left off.

***

12:50 at the cafe I text her : "Hey there, oh wise grey haired one." (recalling something from the conversation while also teasing her)

I figure she might have flaked until at 5:40 I get from her "Hey will you be at think later tonight? Do you have a laptop?"

I respond "I'll be there are 9 with my laptop and a glass of wine. Care for a tryst?" (too forward? I figured I'd go classy)

She says "Haha. The two things I need most right now."

***

We end up meeting at 9 and have some interesting conversation. She talks a lot and is pretty much all over the place so I let her go for it. End up introducing her to my friends and then also meeting up with some of hers.

At 10:30 she realizes she needs to submit an assignment online and runs out very quickly.

I text her with "Hey I want to see your puppy" (we had talked about her new puppy earlier)

She texts back "Buy me a drink- i got it done!" (HAHA it's amazing how often this shit test comes up) I say nothing. She texts again a few minutes later "My puppys in new jersey w/ ana (her roommate)- you should come over, i'll prob host a logic panic session"

thinking she might mean tonight (it's about 12 at this point), I respond with "Logic panic session? I'm intrigued. Where will you meet me?"

And her last text back is "My apt in the afternoon-not totally solid yet- well figure out in class."


This all concluded about 30 minutes ago and I'd love to get someone's opinion on how my game looks, considering that this is one of my first "Day 2"s ever (even though its still the first day).

-TruTh-
04-14-2008, 10:13 PM
Its good around 5-6 few minor flaws but congrats with day2

Saturn5
04-14-2008, 11:21 PM
So far, sounds like you got the ball over the net. That's all that really matters, no?

*Jaz*
05-06-2008, 04:28 PM
Its hard to rate you since I cant actually see you pickup. But sounds good. Dont be too self critical, just find how to overcome your sticking points and you will be fine.

Dimples
05-06-2008, 05:19 PM
I like it. I'd personally prefer a more direct touch to it, but this works, so why not. Just make sure she does'nt LJBF you.

Mattan... Israeli name. I'm Eitan, pronounced "A-ton", so I'm feeling you on the issue.

Cheers

MGriff
05-08-2008, 07:24 PM
Well, I got the f-close so I guess it was at least moderately successful. The problem is that she turned out to be quite annoying and is texting a lot. I've hung out with her in public a few times and she's kind of into PDA, which is a problem because it's possible that other girls I'm trying to game could see (I like gaming washington square park in ny). Any advice on what to do in this sort of situation without pissing her off?

Centerfold
05-11-2008, 09:48 AM
Why are you seeking validation from us? That's a huge problem.

marduk
05-17-2008, 01:19 PM
Why is a girl texting you in front of other girls such a bad thing, anyway? It is a subtle form of DHV for me. Don't brag about this girl that keeps bugging you by texting all the time, but you should not conceal this fact from other girls either.

xxMikexx
06-16-2008, 02:36 PM
PDA: Public Display of Affection. I would guess the problem is not texting around other girls but displaying affection around other girls.

Osieris
06-22-2008, 11:07 AM
But isn't that even a DHV? Especially when he is in the middle of a set and she comes up and PDA's? Wouldn't that create the jealousy plotline?

Note: This is all dependent on the type of PDA. A quick kiss yes. A full blown make out session? Maybe not.

WestsideConnection
06-22-2008, 05:34 PM
So your Sarging NYC, huh? Washington SQ a great place for sure. I just moved out here not to long ago and have been looking for PUA to sarge with. Been moderatly successful solo but always better with a good wing. If your up to it PM me.

WSC