I like a girl in another state

[effdizzle]

A few days ago I went to my friend's wedding in WI(I'm from MI), While I was at the reception. I ran into this HB9 whom I've known for a while through my friend.

So, we started talking and we left the reception together and she showed my the town. Normally, I would have been the one making plans because that's what I do, but I was out of my element never being in that town before. One thing lead to another and we ended up at her place had sex for a few hours, went to sleep, woke up had sex again, and went to eat.

Here's the problem....

This girl is from my hometown and comes back on breaks from school to see her family. I want to be able to spend some more time with her when she comes into town, because I had a crush on her for a long time but it was prior to my MM experience. So I was a little awkward around her back then.

but...

I don't know how to handle this. I know I need to keep in contact with her, but how much? I don't want to seem needy or make it look like I've got nothing better to do then text her (I text more often than call, is that good or bad?)

I was thinking of limiting my texting down to about once a week, and calling her every couple months. Which is fine for girls in my city, because i get to see them, but I don't know if it's too much for a girl I can rarely see.

[CrazyWilly]

Call her on two different occasions. One of which is when you are bored (which should be almost never), and when you are in route to something that enables you to DHV. I always call people when I'm driving somewhere. As an example, I'll spend some time on the phone when I'm driving to a fundraiser dinner. That way I have a reason to tell people where I'm going. And it means I can DHV without bragging.

So call her when life is going great, but you also have a few minutes to talk. That's my two cents for you. Beyond that, get her to meet you in Chicago for a weekend.