Improv
03-26-2008, 10:21 AM
Apathy's a bitch when you finally recognize it for what it is.
Little back story: I've never really had any structured game like Mystery Method, etc. I seemed to score with women by having relatively good looks, an outgoing personality, a razor sharp sense of humor, and most of all, the devil's own luck. The number of women and even threesomes I've had pretty much proves the last one.
Recently, though, after getting over some depression, an almost fatal illness, and the loss of a semi-decent paying job, I decided to get back into the game. I've been able to implement PUA strategies in the past, and they've worked out well.....
....when I was into it.
Apathy. It's a bitch, I say again. The other night I went out to one of the local bars where it's jumping 7 days a week. Mostly younger crowd, and while I don't stick out as "the old guy" by any means (in my early 30s), I look at all the hot ass women, and I really don't care. Nothing gets me all hyped up to approach, which I don't have a problem with. I can strike up a conversation on the spot with damn near any female, whether she's alone or in a group. It's just that I can't get myself motivated enough to do it. It's not out of fear of rejection: That's happened to me plenty of times and I can just brush it off my shoulder like nothing.
It's a problem I have. Does anyone else feel like most of the women they see just aren't worth wasting effort on? And how do you combat/resolve that feeling?
Little back story: I've never really had any structured game like Mystery Method, etc. I seemed to score with women by having relatively good looks, an outgoing personality, a razor sharp sense of humor, and most of all, the devil's own luck. The number of women and even threesomes I've had pretty much proves the last one.
Recently, though, after getting over some depression, an almost fatal illness, and the loss of a semi-decent paying job, I decided to get back into the game. I've been able to implement PUA strategies in the past, and they've worked out well.....
....when I was into it.
Apathy. It's a bitch, I say again. The other night I went out to one of the local bars where it's jumping 7 days a week. Mostly younger crowd, and while I don't stick out as "the old guy" by any means (in my early 30s), I look at all the hot ass women, and I really don't care. Nothing gets me all hyped up to approach, which I don't have a problem with. I can strike up a conversation on the spot with damn near any female, whether she's alone or in a group. It's just that I can't get myself motivated enough to do it. It's not out of fear of rejection: That's happened to me plenty of times and I can just brush it off my shoulder like nothing.
It's a problem I have. Does anyone else feel like most of the women they see just aren't worth wasting effort on? And how do you combat/resolve that feeling?