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Gratitude, it’s the word that pops up in my mind when I listen to Mystery. I am truly grateful for everything Mystery has done and I hope that some day I’ll get the chance to roll with him in field and have fun.
Thank you,
Hákon from Iceland
It seems that sometimes people forget that Approach Anxiety never goes away. They think,”When I get good, when my game is tight opening will be effortless”. Like after a period of practice, they will suddenly be unaffected emotionally. Mystery’s Message serves as the perfect wake up call that it’s not subduing Approach Anxiety, it’s overcoming it. You have to learn that no matter how good you get, you will always have it and no matter how many sets you open, your instincts will still try to protect you.
The analogy of the swimming pool is absolutely perfect and coming from Mystery himself, It really rings true of its credibility.
Great Message, thanks for the reminder
I personally believe that AA does in face go away if you steer away from value based game. In ‘value based’ game or a liner model of Attraction and Seduction, you are consistently assessing a woman’s value (or set) against yours. Instead, I believe that when you are ‘confident’ as well as ‘socially competent’ you don’t breakdown a room into ‘easy or ‘hard’ sets.. it is pretty much all on the same level. That view quite literally evaporates Approach Anxiety. IMHO.
–Frank
Yes so true Mystery , i think competence also breeds confidence but not the other way around to . Its good to see that your not to much different from myself your not what i expected i mean that in a good way of course . You know i never belived this pick up artist stuff was needed i just thougtht that if i devaloped myself and my innergame women would want me , all well and good but if you dont know how to talk to people then its not to usefull really my main problem is not howing how to socialise , i look good and im one of the cool guys who cant socialise lol , i come accross as boring and uptight but to my freinds and some women have said im very charming … i guess i could learn how to socialise and actuallyn show people who i really am i mean its not like people who i just met have really evr seen the real me . Some people say be your self….if only it was that easy or i wish i could .
You know im happy for your success mystery its good to see , i think im going to start my journey now im ready . Nothing else can mess a guy us so much as lack of success with women its messed with me all these years , heck its the only problem i really have .